There wasn't anyone around here that I knew of so I ventured alone out to parks and such at first. Then I went to a few malls and after that its all history. I went out a lot and stopped wherever I needed to such as gasoline stations, convenience stores, etc. I probably had all the fears as others but somehow I overcame them rather quickly and perhaps I've become too relaxed. I too think we are our worst enemy at times...I was also fortunate to meet a few others from here...