Firstly I have posted some pics because it will help demonstrate the issue that I need to tackle...as will become apparent...
so I have started to tackle my weight issue, which is not a major problem but certainly would benefit from a 6-7 kilo loss....
The other day I got dressed to go out for a casual evening in the city and towards the end of the night I got to talk to a close friend who gently introduced the fact that I could benefit from some shape wear, not so much to reduce the impact of weight but more in respect to giving me a more feminine shape, ie bum pads and hip pads, because bluntly I am the stereotypical broad shoulders no bum not hips...
I have no doubts about this and it is just an area I have never really concerned myself about, but a valid shout from someone who cares and knows I take pride in doing the best I can with what I have ....
I have tried a friends hip and bum set up...home made I think...and it just was not me ...at all....!!! I looked like I had some strange growths protruding from my body this was years and years ago and I guess I ruled it out back then as a workable option for everyday wear...
As I do not live in a city that sells this product so I can not go and try some on, as best I am aware anyway, I figure I will have to go the internet route, but not knowing what to go for I fear I am opening myself up to just wasting cash on rubbish that either wont fit or does not make a realistic look / difference.. ...
So my questions are as follows....
Do these products or can these products really work?
Are they really wearable in a club, restaurant, bar etc etc ?
I don't mind splashing the cash if it is for a good cause...what do I need to go for and what do I avoid like the plague....?
Appreciate your thoughts ...whatever they are xx
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