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    Explain all

    It's probably just me but I've been dressing for some time now and have got to a stage where I think I look quite good as a woman but how come I still get comfused by some things. Can someone please post a guide to TV term's
    Example, What's the difference between a CD(crossdresser) and a TV (transvestite)? What's a sissy?
    And I keep seeing loads of abbreviations. I must be thick because I don't know what half of them are short for.
    There must be loads of other term's people don't know. So don't be shy and ask away

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    Question Heres what I found...

    Crossdressers: Previously known as "transvestites," this group of individuals is content with their birth gender, but chooses to dress up as and use the mannerisms of the opposite gender. Crossdressers clothe themselves in the clothing of the opposite gender not for the purpose of entertaining others (as drag performers do), but because they feel more comfortable dressed as such. Note that crossdressers are NOT necessarily gay, nor do they necessarily want to undergo sexual reassignment; it is purely a choice they make about how to dress.

    Drag performers: Drag performers, the male half of which is sometimes referred to as "drag queens," are individuals who dress up as and use the mannerisms of the opposite sex for the purpose of entertaining an audience. Think RuPaul. Some drag performers identify themselves as transgendered, and some do not.


    Transsexuals: This group of individuals was born into one gender but identifies emotionally and psychologically with the other. The medical term often used to describe this situation is "gender dysphoria." The complexities of this state are numerous, and people in different stages of their "coming out as a transsexual" process may refer to themselves in very different ways. Male transsexuals may choose to use hormones, have surgery, or do neither in order to live as women. The point is, these are people who feel that they were born in the wrong body and will often do anything they can to remedy it.


    FtM
    A transsexual born as female and transitoning to male.

    DSM
    DSM IV TR

    Abbreviation for the "Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders" published by the American Psychiatric Association. It currently lists transsexuality (gender identity disorder), cross-dressing (transvestic fetishism), and BDSM (sado-masochism) as mental illnesses. It removed homosexuality from its list in 1973.


    Hormone Replacement Therapy
    HRT

    A term used for the taking of sex-related hormone s (e.g., estrogen, testosterone). Most often the term is used for post-menapusal women taking estrogen. The term also applies to a transsexual taking hormones of the target sex.

    Male to Female
    MtF

    An abbreviation for "male to female" It refers to a transsexual born as male and transitoning to female.

    Transexual
    Purposely spelled with only one "s", this term was intended to take the psychological term from the mental health professional sub-culture and re-define it for the transgender sub-culture.

    Transgender
    An umbrella term referring to anyone who's behavior, thoughts, or traits differ from the societal expectations for their sex. This group includes cross-dressers, transsexuals, intersexuals, gay men, lesbian women, and bisexuals.

    Transgenderist
    A person who lives as their target sex without the desire to change biological sex.

    Transition

    The process or switching from one's bioloical sex ro one's target sex.

    Transsexual
    Transsexuality
    Transsexualism

    A person born of one biological sex who seeks to become the other sex. This term orginally was amental illness diagnosis but was dropped in favor of "gender identity disorder." The term is still used in psychological research where it only refers to those persons who have undergone SRS.

    Transvestitism
    Transvestite

    A psychopatholigical term that includes cross-dressing but also includes other opposite-sex-related clothing activity. Transvesitism includes behaviors from cross-dressing to masturbating while wearing a single object of the opposite-sexes clothing
    Last edited by CindyT; 05-01-2004 at 05:28 AM.
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    Thats great

    Just wanted to say thanks Cindy. I'm sure this will be of a great help to lots of us. If not it's useful to me anyway. Well done

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    RG
    Real Girl, a genetic woman
    RGF
    Real Girl Friend
    She-Male
    A term used by the porn industry referring to pre-op TS (transexual). I don't know a single TG (transgendered) that likes or uses the term.

    JM2CW
    Just my 2 cents worth

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    Last edited by Miss Sherry; 05-01-2004 at 12:29 PM.

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    CD vs TV

    Transvestite and Crossdresser are same terms just with different language base, Transvestite is term that draws from latin language origin and it means the same as crossdressing. Transvestite has somewhat pejorative conotation nowadays, CD came as milder alternative.

    It doesnot help to learn that we are "mental disordered" someone at medical science was really wound up into victorian puritanism or dogmatic cristianism. I pitty people that cannot tresspass their limits I find them mentally underdeveloped. The fact that I like my freedom to dress as I please doesnot make me disordered, not it makes me disordered because I have difference in opinion on the subject that doesnot come to question. I like to question. If someone doesnot understand, or cannot digest, well, there is always time to learn.

    Now, since I have overreacted let me quote this:

    Transvestic Fetishism

    * Repeatedly for at least 6 months, a heterosexual male has intense sexual desires, fantasies or behavior concerning cross-dressing.

    * This causes clinically important distress or impairs work, social or personal functioning.

    Specify if With Gender Dysphoria. The patient is persistently uncomfortable with gender identity or role.
    Source: http://mysite.verizon.net/res7oqx1/id13.html#Transvest

    I bet that your cross dressing like mine doesnot stop you functioning in the society or at work ....!? And second question: why the heck it has to apply to males only? Like there is no fem cross dressing ...??!? Naah... these people have to revise their small black books. They did not learn enough. And the reason why they did not, is because we mostly keep it to ourselves. Any CD psychologists here ????

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    The way I see it is:
    Crossdressing is a term used for people who do it for entertainment; those who think of it as a "costume", for lack of a better word.

    Transvestism seems to me that it's a way of looking at your entire self rather than just the clothes. You would prefer to be a member of the opposite sex whether you would actually have thesurgery or not.

    I quite prefer the term Transvestite, personally.
    Yes-- socks! Run out again! Why is it that no matter how many millions of pairs of socks I buy, I never seem to have any? They just... disappear. Honestly, you'd think someone was coming in here, stealing the damn things, and selling them off. . . For me, socks are like sex: tons of it about, and I never seem to get any.


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    Terminologies

    I've been digging around here and thought some of you might find this old thread interesting enough to bring into new light.

    Quote Originally Posted by CindyT
    Crossdressers: Previously known as "transvestites," this group of individuals is content with their birth gender, but chooses to dress up as and use the mannerisms of the opposite gender. Crossdressers clothe themselves in the clothing of the opposite gender not for the purpose of entertaining others (as drag performers do), but because they feel more comfortable dressed as such. Note that crossdressers are NOT necessarily gay, nor do they necessarily want to undergo sexual reassignment; it is purely a choice they make about how to dress.

    Drag performers: Drag performers, the male half of which is sometimes referred to as "drag queens," are individuals who dress up as and use the mannerisms of the opposite sex for the purpose of entertaining an audience. Think RuPaul. Some drag performers identify themselves as transgendered, and some do not.


    Transsexuals: This group of individuals was born into one gender but identifies emotionally and psychologically with the other. The medical term often used to describe this situation is "gender dysphoria." The complexities of this state are numerous, and people in different stages of their "coming out as a transsexual" process may refer to themselves in very different ways. Male transsexuals may choose to use hormones, have surgery, or do neither in order to live as women. The point is, these are people who feel that they were born in the wrong body and will often do anything they can to remedy it.


    FtM
    A transsexual born as female and transitoning to male.

    DSM
    DSM IV TR

    Abbreviation for the "Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders" published by the American Psychiatric Association. It currently lists transsexuality (gender identity disorder), cross-dressing (transvestic fetishism), and BDSM (sado-masochism) as mental illnesses. It removed homosexuality from its list in 1973.


    Hormone Replacement Therapy
    HRT

    A term used for the taking of sex-related hormone s (e.g., estrogen, testosterone). Most often the term is used for post-menapusal women taking estrogen. The term also applies to a transsexual taking hormones of the target sex.

    Male to Female
    MtF

    An abbreviation for "male to female" It refers to a transsexual born as male and transitoning to female.

    Transexual
    Purposely spelled with only one "s", this term was intended to take the psychological term from the mental health professional sub-culture and re-define it for the transgender sub-culture.

    Transgender
    An umbrella term referring to anyone who's behavior, thoughts, or traits differ from the societal expectations for their sex. This group includes cross-dressers, transsexuals, intersexuals, gay men, lesbian women, and bisexuals.

    Transgenderist
    A person who lives as their target sex without the desire to change biological sex.

    Transition

    The process or switching from one's bioloical sex ro one's target sex.

    Transsexual
    Transsexuality
    Transsexualism

    A person born of one biological sex who seeks to become the other sex. This term orginally was amental illness diagnosis but was dropped in favor of "gender identity disorder." The term is still used in psychological research where it only refers to those persons who have undergone SRS.

    Transvestitism
    Transvestite

    A psychopatholigical term that includes cross-dressing but also includes other opposite-sex-related clothing activity. Transvesitism includes behaviors from cross-dressing to masturbating while wearing a single object of the opposite-sexes clothing

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    Quote Originally Posted by tristen
    I've been digging around here and thought some of you might find this old thread interesting enough to bring into new light.
    I do agree with the "Drag-Queen" term. Working as a drag-queen, I have known some that are strait, gay, and some that would give anything they had to be able to have the surgery. Sort of a wide assortment there. For me, would I have been happier being born with the outer female parts to fit with my inner feelings? I don't even have to think that one over, 100 per-cent Yes .
    Love you All,
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    I see GG used a lot. What does this mean?

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    i can rember when this was a lot easyer ...........you liked to wear womens things....
    you were diffrent........when a pair of stolen pantyhose was ok ................
    now ful closets of the newest things.........coumpters..........cells.........co des .....
    as manny ways to tell "who or what" you are and as manny terms for were you are going or how far along that path you are.........if this keeps up pretty soon you will have to take a test or something......................................... .........................

    just glade i got in on the ground floor...............who or what am i ??????????????
    over 45 years of asking that .......right now right here......i am wendy........that works for now........were am i going.......??????????not quite shure but for now i am as happy as i can be........i found me..........wendy.........thats enough for now..........

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    Question about semantics

    I have always had a problem using labels for anything. Humans are waay to blurred to put in boxes. We use words to try to understand what goes on around us and to us. I feel individuals that fall into 2 sigma of the "normal curve" should not be labeled.

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    Whats in a name

    Hi all
    Thanks Cindy for the great info

    So, CD, TV, Tgirl (my own preference), TS (transexual), Whats in a name

    We are all just Sisters the terms need to be explianed to stop confusion. But what really matters is that we are all people who are trying to enjoy our lives in the way that suits us best and gives our lives some meaning. If we can be allowed to that is.


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    GG Genuine Girl
    SO Significant Other (partner etc)
    "Special Girl" (used in chat rooms) Pre-Op transexual , meaning boobs but with the 'extra' parts still there, making them 'special'.

    TV Transvestite
    TG Transgendered

    Sissy (Not sure if I have this exactly right.) Someone who delights in being male and being embarrassed and emasculated by donning very feminine clothes or articles.

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    I think CindyT did a marvelous job with her explaination of terms. I would differ on one point though, that being I consider a CD and TV to be one in the same. And I can vouch for the part about being a TS. That's what I consider myself to be. Such a wonderful life for all of us.
    Kisses, Linda

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    Thumbs up Thanks HEAPS

    I've been giving up on reading some post as I could not work out what was being said with all the differant abriveations, the knowlage of what they mean now makes for better understanding, Thanks heaps girls for that.

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    Julie - i think u are correct re the sissy thing, i consider myself sissycd. i crossdress as it turns me on and once dressed become very submissive and love being dominated by my SO.

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    I do not understand most of the abbreviations I think it is a sorry sign of today’s culture. Life has never been easer with all the modern appliances, I have just put on my dishwasher it took me all of 60 seconds and I am back on my laptop. Yet when things are so easy people are growing more and more lazy. If I am writing about a girlfriend I use the word not gf, likewise if I am talking about my wife I write that not SO.

    So lets get back to writing posts that tell the story in a way that all can understand, surely we have time to write properly.
    Love Sandra xx

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    I think you all forgot one.

    Here is one I think you forgot.

    TC

    Totally Confused. LOL

    thats me the TC-CD.

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    whats gg?

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    G.G. - 1) Genetic Girl, 2) natural female with all the correct parts from birth.

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    i want srs. sounds good and i need it. but what is it it

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    Sissy is original meant boys who were forced to dress as girls at frist then discovering that dressing as girls is better so they learn to like it and then want to continue dressing this way for life Usually boys who do this like the whole idea of being dressing in Little girl cloths thus the original name sissy given by other childern who do not understand this desire!.

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    Sexual reassingment surgery changing ones sex to the desired one usually male to female but the other way is possible too female to male!.

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    Politically Correct (PC)
    By the way... (BTW)


    BTW... to be PC and up-to-date...

    SRS (Sexual Reassignment Surgery) has been changed to...

    GRS (Gender Reassignment Surgery)!

    Is everyone keeping up with all the acronyms???
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    you and me both but i get lost trying to express it i cant really do it and i can't do with out it i geuss i need help got any idea's ? xdnpantys

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