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    Alive

    So. I was inadvertently "discovered" last Saturday.Stilll
    a work in progress. Ill let you know.
    Not all of us grow up to be the man we once thought we might become.

    My candle burns at both ends. It will not last the night. But Ah, my friends, and Oh my foes, It gives a lovely light.

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    By 'discovered' I hope that means you're going to be a movie star. Otherwise, I wish you well and good luck.

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    O'come on Julia, Don't just leave us hanging here ! -......
    Having my ears triple pierced is AWESOME, ~~......

    I can explain it to you, But I can't comprehend it for you !

    If at first you don't succeed, Then Skydiving isn't for you.

    Be careful what you wish for, Once you ring a bell , you just can't Un-Ring it !! !!

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    U won't BELIEVE what happened today!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

    Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

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    I'm with Genny, you were having lunch at a 'the' coffee shop in Hollywood ...the one where they 'dicovered' Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, and Marilyn Monroe right? 😮

    Please keep us posted Julia, it might be a good thing. Sure, blood pressure will certainly spike at first but after that it usually drops to a much better level!

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    Wow now that was a teaser................................

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    OK, now that you got our attention-------------

    Molly
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    Just like Kim Wilde, "you keep me hanging on".

    Becky
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    I know, you were out and looked beautiful just like your pic and your thigh highs slid down to your ankles and panties down to your knees (the panties had crossdresser on them).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Julia1984 View Post
    So. I was inadvertently "discovered"
    So someone planted a flag in you and claimed you for England?
    Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
    There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
    Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.

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    A work in progress? Caught half dressed?

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    You tunneled from Wales under the Irish sea, now the Oirish are going to send you back. :-)

    Probably along with Paddy McGintys goat.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

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    were you dressed as the polio vaccine? penicillin?

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    Sorry for the brevity of the OP.

    Levity isn't really appropriate. We had " the talk" on Saturday after the "Why is there a bag of women's clothes in your wardrobe?" question. Thankfully I had been rehearsing the conversation for some time. Though not planning on having it until I had understood rather more about Julia and what she means. Well: that wasn't to be. The bell has rung, the genie is out, along with the cat... We haven't spoken about it since then, despite ( or maybe because of) being on holiday with the children all week. Thats why I used the phrase "work in progress".

    I imagine many here will relate to the situation. I just wanted to explain my recent quietness and to emphasise that I am still very much here and alive.

    As Lou Reed said, albeit in quite different circumstances, "It's the beginning of a great adventure". Or at least I hope it is.

    Hugs

    Julia

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    Hi Julia
    I hope you are ok and still talking to your SO, I was discovered about 9 months ago and, no not for a movie, it's been up and down since then as we go through a new relationship together, the biggest learn for me was that the burden I had been carrying, being in the closet, for all of those years, was dumped onto my wife and she is struggling to cope with it.
    Now my son has also found me out, double wammy, he is a lot more understanding and doesn't mind me dressing whilst he is in the house, so I will be telling my wife, soon, that my son knows and she will have someone to talk to.
    The point I am making is be honest and open, but remember the burden you have placed on your SO and she may need to talk about it and you may not be the person she wants to talk to.

    Good Luck
    Jennie
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    Hi Julia,
    I do wish you well. My day has not yet come. Please let us know how things go. We're all rooting for you!
    Hugs,
    Genny

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    Hi Julia,

    I got caught by my wife, whilst I was dressed in her nightie, so the old, "this isn't quite how it looks" routine wasn't going to cut it . I know that feeling of 'crap I've been busted' and I'm hoping that your world continues to spin as well as mine did, post discovery and later complete revelation.

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    Well...
    The world has carried on spinning, like it does. It cares not for me, nor I much for it. What does it matter if I wear a suit or a dress? I'm still the same person underneath those trappings. And I THINK thats known and accepted, at least to some extent.
    Life really IS too short to care so much, isn't it?
    Juliax
    Last edited by Julia1984; 04-16-2016 at 05:17 PM.
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    Julia, sorry I missed your post. The truth will set you free. Don't allow her to assume anything. Open the door to conversations and if she is ready to talk, she will, but keep opening those doors. It CAN work. The "hurt" of lying is what will bother her most. The weirdness of cross dressing is really just a thing and not the the be all end all.

    Best of luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by Julia1984 View Post
    Well...
    The world has carried on spinning, like it does. It cares not for me, nor I much for it. What does it matter if I wear a suit or a dress? I'm still the same person underneath those trappings. And I THINK thats known and accepted, at least to some extent.
    Life really IS too short to care so much, isn't it?
    Juliax
    Truer words were never spoken (I could quote another from "Midsummer Nights Dream", we are still who we are, in a suit, a dress, or buck naked...no, that's not the quote but could you imagine Shakespeare writing that...I'm LMAO right now thinking about it )

    I truly hope your SO understands in the long term, many of us have been there with varying results but I have a feeling it's going to be all good, and a heck of a lot less stressful!

    Oh, and thanks for coming back, we were worried about you! ☺

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