On Sunday my wifes friend from work was in the area and dropped in, I meet her a few times but meet her husband for the first time. Well we didn't hit it off the bat, and it didn't get any better. He told me that we had to excuse him that he just had a horrific experience. I asked him what happened and he said they were in a furniture store and they seen a She/he. I said oh you seen a crossdresser, he answered no that was a transvestite, a crossdresser dresses in private and is usally married and a normal male who dresses for recreation. I told him that he seems to know alot about the subject. He went on telling us that from a distance he seen a tall blonde and because of her height it got his attention, but the closer she was getting he started to realize something was wrong and when she/he got close the five o'clock shadow was showing and it creeped him out and when she/he walked bye he just froze. He said he has been to bars and clubs and seen transvestites that look passable but this guy was just creepy. He asked my wife if that would freak her out, my wife said that she has seen many crossdressers and they never bothered her, they didn't try to steel from her or sell her anything, or try to change her religion, they just go upon there business and she goes on with hers. My only comment was I really don't have an opinion because I enjoy seeing people living there lives the way they want and I don't believe that what you call she/he didn't do anything wrong and was just going upon her business. He didn't seem to care to much what we were thinking because he just repeated that it creeped him out. Some people are like race horses with the eye covers, they only see straight and don't look around. Let's just say we didn't hit it off off to begin with and it didn't get any better after that conversation. After they left my wife said to me, not to let people like that discourage me,you just can't change some people and me and my community are moving forward but have a long road ahead. What a jackass he was, I guess we know who won't be over for BBQ, ever.