Not sure if this fits this section but thought I'd post my experience here as an example of a sort of acceptance from family members. As I have said previously my family knows of my CDing but it is a subject that is not talked about and I do not push so when my mother was admitted to the hospital and in the ICU, members were in and out to visit and today I was in the room waiting for doctors and other personnel, found myself with my sister and 3 of her daughters(all older adults) sitting and talking and joking about our lives and the memories from the past, I guess you could say having gallows humor in the face of a grim situation. Now I guess I must describe that I was dressed more as an "effeminate" male; women's skinny jeans, ankle boot flats, women's pull over sweater, earrings, finger rings, small necklace with 3 tiny "charms" on it and bangles on both wrists, my "purse", as I always carry it now, my hair styled in a more femme manor but still kind of male, and just a touch of mascara just enough to darken not highlight my lashes and totally clean and tight shaven. Why now I took this time to express this part of me I do not know, all of this dressing took a lot of thought as not to "flaunt" but to be myself and feel comfortable in a tense situation as I have the POA for my mother I needed to be there for any decisions that may have to be made. As the day wore on for a brief moment the subject was my mode of clothing but to my surprise it was all positive and complimentary, but it was not the time to have a big discussion about CDing, so in a moment I was accepted in the open from family. Not sure how long this will play out from them but there was a shining moment in a dark situation, maybe one day soon the elephant in the room can be addressed in the open. I guess I just had to vent and maybe show that you can be yourself in situations you'd never thought possible.