I have been talking about going out dressed to my wife recently. Not to public places, but perhaps next year to the Prom held at the Dunes Resort in Douglas Michigan. My wife is not totally against the idea, but she does have some concerns. We have both seen pictures of the event online. She is worried that I may be outed (her worst fear), or even have my photo tagged with my name such as on Facebook or some such. I freely admit that I keep my clothing preferences quiet due to my occupation, and at the request of my wife. Can anyone tell me what to expect if we, she and I, went up there and attended the event? Are you asked permission before having your photo taken? Is your male name used for anything? I would enjoy getting out of the house more than just on Halloween, but I want my wife to be comfortable with this also.

Kimmy P.