So here is my issue.
I haven't dressed in over 17 years and have spent the past 12 years in a relationship, my partner is aware that I used to dress and that I am bisexual, my fear is that she will not be able to accept me if I start dressing again or even worse, accept it, but secretly resent me for it. She is a wonderful person, but she has the sort of personality that makes me fear the latter of the two, she will say nothing and quietly ignore that anything is going on. She unfortunately surrounds herself with friends who are very intolerant of the TV/CD community and in fact have many other negative views on other subjects such as homosexuality and racism. It leaves me feeling a little dirty every time she invites them to our home. Her own views tend to swing depending on the company she is keeping and it is sometimes very hard to understand what her true views are. So what do I do?