More companies are being asked about LGBTQA issues and many may have a spokesperson for each category to be a champion or resource person.
What if your boss asked a group for any volunteers to be the TG representative? This might mean you would be required to come to work dressed at least some of the time.
Would you volunteer for the chance to dress and be accepted by work environment? (You can tell wife you were picked and are being forced to dress for work, but that big smile and attention to your makeup might give it away
Thought it might be interesting discussion, since I can imagine it occurring. My boss had to respond to a reporter asking questions.
Hugs, Ellen