While I'm personally happy to hear that as a man in a dress you feel it's appropriate to use the men's restroom, the last half of your post makes me very sad. It's the kind of language that simultaneously erases trans women AND is incredibly demeaning to all women (cis and trans alike).

I am a woman. A real woman, who doesn't appreciate men talking about and valuing our appearances above all else.

I'm also a woman who happens to be trans.