Can anyone offer their perspective about going to Lesbian bars vs Gay bars? Is one more accepting of us than the other... generally. Are there do's and don't for a hetero CD? Tips to get along? I went to one TG friendly bar and that was comfortable and fun, but there are fewer of those around. I'm not looking for anything other than a drink and friendly conversation. I don't pass but I could be mistaken for a GG from a distance and from some angles..
Do gay guys think a hetero-CD is just not admitting they are gay?
Do lesbians think we are outsiders trying to crash their party?
I know these are generalizations, and it "depends". What do you think?