I have this weird desire to be dominated by a man when dressed.
I want to loose control and have someone take over me.....forbid use me.
I guess I enjoy feeling vulnerable.......in skimpy dresses and high heels.
Anyone share this feeling?
I have this weird desire to be dominated by a man when dressed.
I want to loose control and have someone take over me.....forbid use me.
I guess I enjoy feeling vulnerable.......in skimpy dresses and high heels.
Anyone share this feeling?
Yes. All the time :-) You're definitely not alone :-)
It really makes you feel very feminine, doesn't it?
Sexually, I am submissive. Being dressed and dominated by a man just takes it over the top!
Missed that one.
Wouldn't mind if one took me to dinner and romanced me though.
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Not really. This "damsel" is never in distress nor do I feel the need for a man to dominate me. The feelings should be mutual the way i see it.
Second star to the right and straight on till morning
Absolutely not...especially in this world of psychos using handcuffs, whips, and chains. Mutual submission is much better than dominance.
Yes! it's a regular fantasy of mine.🌺
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It's also a fantasy of mine to be sexually dominated by a strong woman while en femme🌺
I personally feel more submissive when dressed so a man being more dominant is part of the fantasy.
OK, don't tell anyone but, uh, me too.Originally Posted by Fiona123
I've waited so long for this time. Makeup is so frustrating. Shaking hands and I look so old. This was a mistake.
My new maid's outfit is cute. Sure fits tight.
And then I step into the bedroom and in the mirror, I see a beautiful woman looking back at me.
Smile, Honey! You look fabulous!
I would love to be dressed in my fine lingerie and dominated by a woman, love to be submissive.
Some people have this feeling all the time. Being a submissive in a sexual sense is incredibly exciting and erotic for some people, whether they are cross dressers or not. For some subset of cross dressers this can be a major part of their sexual identity. It isn't weird, just part of the incredible diversity of us humans. Personally, I enjoy being in this role very much. If you want to safely explore this find a really good dominatrix. Not your stereotyped whips and leathers kind, but one who knows how to get into your mind. That is where the real pleasure lies.
Omg yes! And let me tell you. It's an amazing experience!
You're not alone, I feel the same way when I'm dressed. Even if I'm not dressed I'll often want a man around me, even if it's just to hold hands, shower or sleep with. I've been with men who take control and dominate me, I've experienced this while dressed too and it's even better. That vulnerable and submissive feeling is highly desirable and even addictive to me. The experience of being treated like a woman by a proper man is something I love, it's definitely alot more different than being in the male role, it's the opposite. Rather than being in control or dictating what is going on you're the opposite, you're receiving instead of giving and right now I prefer that.
I didmeet a man who answered my ad four years ago or so, twice, but I would not spend all night in bed with him. I never took my dress off, just modeled, had legs massage. He did not want to meet a third time, because i guess i just was not willing to do more. But, i did enjoy it, have that desire some, but not with just any guy. I would be more submissive with a guy or a woman. I feel like a predator if i am the opposite.
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For me that's the point of dressing. I'm submissive and like aggressive, dominant men.
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Handcuffs are a plus, but not too ruff, please.
Every inch a lady!
No way I would want to be dominated by anyone.
I find the whole thing a very strange kink but if it turns you one then its all good.
Yes, by multiple men at once.
Ironically enough, I consider myself more submissive as a male partner, and would probably be more of a dominant while crossdressed, even in a strictly theoretical situation involving a male partner. Which is slightly sad considering that the stereotypical image of the dominatrix doesn't seem to get the prettier clothes. To be submissive (mental rather than physical) to a woman while crossdressed would be fairly interesting, although one of my fantasies does involve a ball gown / wedding dress with lots of fabric, if only because it keeps me out of reach. And I'll leave it at that.
Dom/Sub is a sexual fetish which knows no gender boundaries. With very few search skills it's easy to find stories, photos, and classified ads posted by six foot tall, two hundred pound plus, hairy males who are seeking to be dominated by men and/or women. If you enjoy being Sub, and if the wearing of skimpy dresses and high heels enhances the experience, then go for it.
There are eight million reasons to crossdress in the Naked City, and this is just one of them.
The more I transition to my en femme side the less submissive I'm becoming because most guys that say they are Dom really have no clue what they are doing. I've had many female subs over the past decade so I make sure to use my knowledge and experience to teach men that a Dom is merely a tool for the journey and the sub is actually the one in control. I make sure we are clear that once a session is over, it's over. The illusion of power can fool someone that they are in charge of dominating your life. I'm a grown man and dont need some guy bossing me around while I'm grocery shopping. Always set boundaries and only sub for someone you trust and always always always have safeguards in place so they know not to get cute. Once your Dom is properly trained, have a ball lol.
I have had the same desire at times. I would love to go out on a date as a female get to know each other better, start a relationship and be a female in sexual ways for him
I would love to have an experience like this. I'm bisexual and have been with men before, but not when en femme.
All the time. Didn't always feel that way,but over the last few years the desire to be with a man & woman while dressed has become more & more intense. Maybe some day the fantasy will become a reality. I'm not getting any younger,so hopefully sooner rather than later
Agreed. This is something I'd like to try, dressed or otherwise (but it would be particularly interesting while dressed, I admit). I do tend to be on the submissive side, but not in the full-on D/s sense.
Well said Kylie. Fantasy is one thing but sensible boundaries are important.🌺
I think I'd like to see if they could romance me first. Then we'd go from there. I'd like to know someone first. To many crazies out there.
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