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    I have never had the desire to be dominated or have sex or even be kissed by a man. By a woman, oh yes. One in particular especially when I am in guy mode.

    But I sure do feel the presence of the guys, in no way erotic or sexual when I am enfemme. When enfemme I am fully aware of the vulnerability I have. So in that way the men dominate their surroundings and by default have some effect on me. I can better understand the concerns women have in their daily lives.

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    Love to dress for men

    When I dress I always feel totally fem and thus very attracted to men, not all men of course because think I have some taste and I'm not a ****. But do love a man who treats me like a woman and loves to cuddle and kiss. That's the best and if it goes further from that so be it, as it has happened several times and I've been so happy to please him.

    Quote Originally Posted by BillieAnneJean View Post
    I have never had the desire to be dominated or have sex or even be kissed by a man. By a woman, oh yes. One in particular especially when I am in guy mode.

    But I sure do feel the presence of the guys, in no way erotic or sexual when I am enfemme. When enfemme I am fully aware of the vulnerability I have. So in that way the men dominate their surroundings and by default have some effect on me. I can better understand the concerns women have in their daily lives.

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    After reading this thread it came to my mind two very good movies, 59 shades of gray and may be the original idea 9 and a half weeks...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yinlingyen View Post
    I have this weird desire to be dominated by a man when dressed.
    I want to loose control and have someone take over me.....forbid use me.
    I guess I enjoy feeling vulnerable.......in skimpy dresses and high heels.
    Anyone share this feeling?
    Definitely yes, when pretty. I'd want him to tell me what to wear, lead me by his hand, undress me (when necessary), pick me up in his arms to take me to a bed and then tell me what we are going to do while on it. Love the fantasy.

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    Thats all I think about when I am dressed. Total submission.....

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    Tie me up, gag me, use me, PLEASE! Of course there's boundaries, and respect, and gentleness, and even love. Pleasing your partner is really the very essence of love itself. Let's play together.

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    Isn't 'being dominated' just being willing to take on the submissive role?

    If that makes you want a man to give you affection that way, perhaps you should turn that coin over a few times and inspect it. There is something there.

    I have known pretty gay boys who dress super cute without trying to be female. I have known power-women who look stunning and will make your knees melt.

    It is head-space and attitude. Perhaps it is easier to accept the 'dom' role from a male due to our general culture, but to me it is all about roles.

    For some XXs, the idea of being made to wear makeup is a submissive (humiliating?) thing. Others want to be treated like a dog. It varies. As a sub, you want to give up control to someone who is safe and who you trust. As a dom, you have been given a gift that is now under your CARE. You are responsible for their well-being.

    The term is 'power-transfer'.

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    I like role play and being seduced or taken is often a part.

    The most dominant person I've dated was a woman who would prescribe what I should wear on dates or buy things for me like lace stockings. Very hot.

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    I'd absolutely love it. Its something I think about whether dressed or not. Ideally, I'd love to go out with a man as Elyse then come home and be totally dominated and submissive for him. Obviously I don't want any physical harm, but the idea of being dressed and with a big strong man is a huge fantasy of mine.
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    Id love it , being submissive myself .

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    Yes I have, because I am so submissive, but he must not take it to extremes,

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    Guilty! Yes I do fantasize about being dominated by a man. I would love to be held by a man and kissed by man only while dressed. Just like the Taylor Swift song "Wildest Dreams" and only with the right guy. Taking the roll of a woman and being submissive.

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    What's the problem of being thrown down on the bed and taken.

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    Not a thing, as far as I'm concerned.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yinlingyen View Post
    I have this weird desire to be dominated by a man when dressed.
    I want to loose control and have someone take over me.....forbid use me.
    I guess I enjoy feeling vulnerable.......in skimpy dresses and high heels.
    Anyone share this feeling?
    For Megan it's actually very empowering when dressed, I feel that she has absolute control at all times. Being dressed very skimpy with heels and make up, it does outwardly appear to be weak to most, however there is a man under all that glitters, tread lightly.
    So to answer your question, not for Megan.

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    My desires to dominate or submit are independent of how I'm dressed. They depend on how my girlfriend is feeling. If she's feeling dominant, I'll be her loyal servant/slave/knight/etc. Whatever makes her happiest. If she's feeling submissive, I'll take charge and be the dominant one. We play off each other, so we're usually complimentary opposites.

    Side note, while I have no desire to be dominated by a man, I do get quite a charge when my girlfriend wears a business suit. Something about the lines of the suit on her frame.

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    I have no intetest in men. I don't even really notice men in social gatherings. But I often fantasize about being dominated by a woman when dressed. I would love for my wife to be the domme but I dont think she will ever get past "tolerant" of my crossdressing.

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    I am sexually submissive. And the female role comes naturally to me. But, I would like my GG wife to act as the dominant male partner in our relationship. A sort of role swap. HA HA....

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    I also have this fantasy among many others, but when actually living it its a whole different story... can acttually be an uncomortable situation.

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    I saw a porno where a woman "orders" her crossdressed husband to kneel and service a naked man. He complies meekly. All the while she is verbally abusing him. Very erotic but in real life a fantasy.🌺

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fiona123 View Post
    Yes! it's a regular fantasy of mine.🌺

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    It's also a fantasy of mine to be sexually dominated by a strong woman while en femme🌺
    OK, don't tell anyone but, uh, me too.
    I've waited so long for this time. Makeup is so frustrating. Shaking hands and I look so old. This was a mistake.
    My new maid's outfit is cute. Sure fits tight.
    And then I step into the bedroom and in the mirror, I see a beautiful woman looking back at me.
    Smile, Honey! You look fabulous!

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    I don't think about being dominated but I do fantasise about a guy find me attractive enough to treat me like a real woman and making love to me like he would a girl.

    That said I do like the idea of a woman dominating me whilst I am dressed.

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