I hear a lot about "blending in" and "passing", and I guess that's fine for the individuals in our community who want to *appear* as GGs, but what about the fact that we are a group all our own?
For example, who ever sees a GG wearing six inch heels, unless they are in porn? But I *love* wearing six inch heels. Am I giving crossdressers a bad name? Or am I entitled to be a CROSSDRESSER, in a group all (my) our own?
It sounds like so many wanna pass as a GG, but I really don't mind being in a separate group.
But see, we are all our own individuals. some people want to pass as GGs, some people, like myself just want to be who we are.
I gave up long ago trying to pass for a GG. I mean, I *can* but I'm not interested anymore. I wanna do what *I* enjoy.
We should all be as accepting of each others differences as we are of others differences. Not every crossdresser is the same.
I was "raised" by a drag queen. And anytime I was not wearing high heels, in particularly HIGH heels, I was "cheating". Although I am not a drag queen, that is something that has always stuck with me. Not something a GG would do, but I'm not a GG. I'm a CD.
I'm not knocking those who want to pass as GG's, just saying for those of us that might fit in a different category :-)