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    Advice in general. (Gone)

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    Excellent post, Gaby. Some great advice in there. Thank you for posting this. It will be very helpful for veteran dressers as well as newer ones.
    "Taking the time to be in touch with my feminine side"

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    Looks like a great list that covered just about everything! But after reading that, I'm too tired to get dressed..
    Be yourself. Everyone else is taken!

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    Good list. Especially some of the things that aren't so fluffy like safety and getting recognized..... Crossdressing can be wonderful but.....
    I'm content being a once in a while girl.

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    Really good stuff here Gabby, thanks for sharing

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    Great read thank you 😽

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    Great read Gaby, lots of good advice even some for us veterans.

    I liked #29, been there, done that 😲

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    Excellent advice Gabby. Enjoyed reading it. Very common sense.
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    A lot there! All good advice, for sure. I also made the mistake of not getting two motel room keys, and locked myself out on the third floor of a place, while dressed up. Embarrassing moments. Gaby, Number one is so important. Cd can really take over a guy's life, if he lets it, and things can get way out of balance.
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    Gaby, wow, long time no see! Remember talking to me at Donna's many years ago?

    I'd add, when it comes to restrooms, try to plan ahead and see if there is a private bathroom (single user of any gender, or a family restroom) available before you go. It is better to avoid the issue entirely, go around an an obstacle rather than trying to go through it. Sites like refugerestrooms.org make it easier to know before you go.

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    Cool, nice list and tips . . . The Trans Commmandments! Thx

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    Hi Gaby, That is a great list it should be chapter #1 in The Crssdressers Handbook .

    Another thing that will help when shopping in the ladies dept. ,
    Don't make direct eye contact with other shoppers,

    Back in the old days that is what would do, now I will even acknowledge other shoppers ......
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    This is perfect Gaby, nice post!

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    Good list Gaby! You were always a source of healthy advise

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    Thanks for posting this - good stuff

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    Thanks Gaby, I wish I have had this list many years back!

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    Gaby,
    Wonderful, this should be a sticky.
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    A sticky is a permanent section in a forum at the top of the forum posts containing useful info.
    Yes this needs to be a sticky.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vickie_CDTV View Post
    Gaby, wow, long time no see! Remember talking to me at Donna's many years ago?
    Donna's? Bordering on ancient history. Note my current location...

    Quote Originally Posted by Vickie_CDTV View Post
    I'd add, when it comes to restrooms, try to plan ahead and see if there is a private bathroom (single user of any gender, or a family restroom) available before you go. It is better to avoid the issue entirely, go around an an obstacle rather than trying to go through it. Sites like refugerestrooms.org make it easier to know before you go.
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    Fantastic! This list should be a guidline for all CDs, and not just newbies.

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    That is a very nice list of tips.
    thanks so much for sharing it with us Gaby
    God bless you
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    Great list of things for sure, I really enjoyed reading about Item #57

    Maybe that one could be scrubbed to say use at your own risk......LOL Some people like a little pain, just saying
    Way too Girly ! I couldn't smell the smoke, and now I'll watch the flames

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    Gaby this is an excellent thoughtful post. I agree that this information should be a sticky so that it is readily available to all.

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    Great list XD a lot to consider that I otherwise wouldn't have thought about.

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    Good sound advise. Thank you

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