I know that many "girls" here do have an open relationship with their SO, and some want to be accepted as CD's or TS, that all fine fine but as for me looking at what I chose to be I want and chose to be in the closet, and at my age I really don't think I will ever come out, it's one of those things that some times we all have to choose to do, afther doing a deep examination of me, I still don't want to come out or share my CDing with anybody in my circle of friends or family, and only dressup when I really I'm sure that it's completely safe and will not be outed, even if that takes a year or two, but how about you?