So about 3 weeks ago I came out to my wife she looks at me like a deer in the head lights and kept saying Im not sure what you want me to say.
With that reaction I kinda retreated abit by trying to play it down saying I felt silly and I dont understand it myself ( annoyed with myself for saying those things) .
I then let the dust settle awaiting for a good time to discuss the topic but not wanting to push things.
Today she came across a pair of hot pink panties in the dryer ( I had been sorting the washing today with intension to see it through to the end but had to drop my son off at a friend's, unexpectedly she finished it) she asked me whos they where so I just said mine and Ive been wanting to discuss it further shes retorted whats there to talk about and said in no uncertain terms she wont live with me dressing up.
As she clearly wont talk about it I wondered wether writing a letter or email might be the way to go?
Feeling lost
Emma