and if he did, what was his reactions/feelings?
I had been dressings with Mom's full permission, encouragement and blessings since I was about 10, but Dad -who was away sometimes for months for his work- did not know or suspect anything until four years later when he came home a day early from one of his trips and was in the living room waiting to surprise us when Mom and I waltzed in from an afternoon of a bit of shopping and a movie and I was head to toe en femme...dress, stockings, girdle, long-line bra, forms, heels, wig and full makeup.
After 15 seconds of staring at me in disbelief, he let out a guttural scream, lunged at me, tore my wig off my head, ripped the dress from my body and stopped when Mom pulled him away from me, leaving me standing there in tears in nothing except my underwear. In my whole life, I saw Dad cry twice: this was the first, the second was when I broke my leg in a motorcycle accident five years later...;o(
This resulted in several months of appointments with shrinks -but that's another story altogether
Did your father know or suspect?
Hugs
Helen