I think "fetish" is a distractor. If you crossdress in a sexual situation, unless there's something really kinky going on, it is with your consent. If you are a male who would consent to dress in female clothes there's some gender issue in play and you end up under the TG umbrella. So transvestic fetishists belong with us, they're just uncomfortable dealing with their gender issue outside of a sexual setting. (My opinion, of course, not law.)