Lucy you just defined my ex, "They choose to blame all the problems in a relationship on the "issue" that their partner has. They use crossdressing as a scape goat" I have had to goto court twice because of this,( Exactly This!) let me tell you when you have to sit down with someone you barely know and explain why you do this, no its not real pleasant, but you know what? Im still here and in the end Im a lot stronger because of that. Isolation is chosen not lived, you should try making a friend you can actually talk to instead of just writing on the forum. I have reached out to many people for different reasons , whether it be to help or just be friends, I will never regret reaching out.