So here is the deal. I have been wearing women clothes at home freely in the evening when kids are in bed. Ocassionally, I wore a skirt and my kids (both under 7) know it. My wife thinks it is time for me to fess up and come out to her parents who live in town, so they will learn it from me, not the kids at some point. It has been on my mind for many months how to do it. My in-laws are the best and I love them. However, my father-in-law on several occasions through remarks quite intolerant towards LGBT community at large. Today, he told me a story he read somewhere that was supposed to be funny about a father of a daughter who said he will make sure the next boy/men who walks into a bathroom behind his daughter, he (father) will make sure the boy/man won't need SRS any longer. I found it quite tasteless but didn't had time to respond as I was already living with my daughter. I chose this occasion as a reason to write a letter to confront him on thi belief and at the same time to come out so he could decide for himself am someonr like his son-in-law is a danger to girl like his daughter. I told them among other things thay I hope they will open their minds just like they opened their hearts for me. You know, I do believe that sometimes people start to think differently when they know closely someone who belongs to group of people they avoided at best and marginalized at worst.
Wish me good luck!