Zooey I will answer your questions from my previous post here. I don't belive woman shoul d be obligated to accommodate the cross dressers. I personally think there should be only gender neutral restrooms. Where there are many stalls floor to ceiling walls and doors that lock and a central sink area. No reason this can't be done, and it would cut down on water space a dual restroom area takes up.
You also asked why I pers I Nall feel uncomfortable in these spaces. Because I know on my best day I still look like a man wearing woman's clothes, and I identify as male. It maybe me but I feel like ib saw old be making others uncomfortable and I don't want to be doing that in a place not meant for me. Haveing said that I know others are not the same as me and don't care if they make others uncomfortable.
I will probably offend poeple with this but in my opinion unless you are liveing full time as a female and transitioning you should stay out of the women's areas as much as possible. These are my personal views. If you can't commit to a gender why should others be obligated to accomadate you when you want/ need to be a different gender. I think we are in agreement on this part. I was giving you a reason others feel untitled to it.