1. If you were retired and living alone, would you dress full time.
I would not dress full time but certainly would dress more often. I would also explore going out dressed which is some I have not done.
2. When I'm dressed, do I feel like a girl, or a man in a dress.
I am the same person in drab and dressed. The dressing satisfies a means of expressing myself not accessible when I am in drab.
3. Is it OK if I tell your wife that she [the therapist] saw me dressed.
Our agreement is that I dress at home so I would not dress for the therapist unless I discussed with my wife first.
4. She also asked me why I didn't tell my wife before we got married.
I have much more clarity about my dressing and who I am now. However, not telling my wife was one of the worst mistakes I ever made.