I finally have ear rings what have this lady been missing never would figured how great this day would feel it truly brings Stephanie toghter know just have to figure what to tell people I'm still in the closet so we see what happens throw this week
I finally have ear rings what have this lady been missing never would figured how great this day would feel it truly brings Stephanie toghter know just have to figure what to tell people I'm still in the closet so we see what happens throw this week
Be assured that males having pierced ears is now almost universally accepted across most cultures theses days.
If someone would happen to ask "why", just tell them simply "because I wanted to".
it's really a non issue anymore .
Yep tell them you wanted to.
If you don't act like its a big issue it wont be.
Please don't lie and say oh I lost a bet or my GF made me because nobody is going to believe that anyway.
I never had anyone question me when I had mine done.
Lol a bet is how my cross dressing started I lost a bet with the wife and had to paint my nails for a month, after the month was over I enjoyed it so I kept doing it and now well now I have a dress a skirt heels blouse nighty makeup, and most importantly a georgous loving accepting wife
Pierced my left ear in college in the early '80s, when that was "way rad." Stopped wearing anything in it when I started working in some rather conservative places in the late '80s where dress codes prohibited earrings on men, or, at the very least, people would've looked at you funny. Hole closed up, obviously.
Got both earlobes pierced back in May.
One BIG hint: Go to a proper body-piercing place and get them done with a needle, rather than getting them done at a jewelry store with a piercing gun. It's a more pleasant experience, it's less painful, it's cleaner and more sterile, and there's more chance that your piercings will heal cleanly and won't get infected http://www.homiegfunk.com/gunssuck.htm
Well lady's it was nothing a few asked why I simply replied cause I wanted to and that was it nobody was worried and mind had a few say when u going to wear a dress only if then knew lol but anybody has doubt about getting them done don't be nobody cares in this world today I'm so glad I did mine and no regrets and wow they look amazing when all dolled up good luck lady's and thanks for all your post
Thet's great bebt thing I ever did. Don't you love wearing those earring dangling from your ears how girly.
Angie
I'm the only guy in my circle of friends that DOESN'T have pierced ears.
Congrats on the new piercings!! But like everyone said don't think to much into it if anyone asks. Keep it simple. But its not out of the norm for guys to have there ears pierced I have mine pierced three times and my son has had both his ears pierced since he was three he is now seven. Sometimes he gets asked from other kids why are your ears pierced and he says cus I wanted them. Lol
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Congratulations Steph, I know how your feeling, as for myself it's way better than wearing clip on earrings now my ear lobes don't hurt when I wear earrings. As for myself when people asked me why I did it I just tell them cause I just got the urge to do it and If did.
I pierced my own ears when I was in Gr12, was teased a bit as it was a church run boarding school. Over the years since I've had many more piercings in my ears, but never kept them in. Still would love to get my ears multi-pierced but chicken to, though my wife would not like it.
I have the studs and piercing gun from Sally's too - at least I can always take them out.
Wish I had one of you ladies with me while I get mine done. Congrats to all who've done it.
I have both ears pierced have for many many years. I don't wear ear rings most of the time and when I do I get the occasional what you got your ears pierced?. When I say yes a long time ago it's oh never seen you wear ear rings before and thats that. It happens even with poeple I know have ssen me with them but never a big deal.
a friend found some great silver hoops (the perfect size too) with spring loaded piece, they clip right on and stay on. hurts alittle after wearing them all night and then taking then off but they look great on
I had my left ear pierced 20 years ago when that was cool for guys. My son and I got it done together. I've considered getting the other ear done but that might raise questions. Over the years I've paid attention to men wearing earrings . It's so common now it would be difficult to imagine anyone even asking the question why. I see tough guys with multiple piercing and effeminate men with none, so who can say. I'm beginning to wonder if the only men without their ears pierced are men like me: afraid someone might suspect the truth.
I'm 56 and had no issues. Had a couple of compliments though on my studs.
I had both of my ears pierced a few years ago and today I wear a pair of diamond studs that belonged to my Beautiful Mother in Law who passed away at the age of 96. She was a very giving and caring person and every time my wife looks at me she will see a part of her Mom looking back at her. PS I really don't care what others may think of my pierced ears!
Congrats on getting your ears pierced. As for me, I'm getting enough satisfaction wearing clip ons so far.
"You're the only one to see the changes you take yourself through", Stevie Wonder
I have one ear pierced and genuinely did it for a bet, I'm looking for a good excuse now to do the other, one my SO will believe.
Congrats girl! This is one thing I would love to do but still certain the wife's answer is no. The possibilities are endless now for you.
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I pierced my ears 10 days ago. My wife encourage me to do it! I'm extremely grateful to her!! After 40 year waiting for that...I'm absolutely impressed on me!!
Some comments at work and friends but all off them just surprised or delighted.
I only regret hadn't done it before. Nobody really cares. I though "Everybody is going to look at my ears"....no at all. I went to my doctor three days ago...and she did´t tell me anything. Sometimes is a little disappointing when someone doesn't tell you anything about your earrings but I think that nobody cares really.
So long worried about people's opinions and now I feel silly. If you want to do it...don't wait!!
Now, I'm waiting the healing and buying a lot of new earrings!!
I would love to get my ears pierced, but any of these things are seen by my wife as another step along a path to who knows what. She says she worries about me and I understand her concern to some degree. So one has to pick their issues and I guess I will let this one go for now. Someday...
As with other replies, just say because you wanted to. No one I know has thought twice about it past that answer when I gave it.
Now if you start wearing big dangly earrings I'm pretty sure that won't wash. Lol
I have been tempted to have my ears pierced for more than 30 years, but the fear that my family would not accept it has kept me from doing it.