Since coming out to my wife a little over 6 months ago, and after some therapy together, we have been DADT. she doesn't want it in her face, but acknowledges and understands it's something that makes me happy.
About 2 months ago, she suggested I move my stash from the garage, to some better boxes on the top shelf of the closet,....progress.
Last month, she also suggested that I might want to join a support group, which I had indeed been wanting to do.
So, she has been increasingly more supportive, even though she just doesn't understand it.
This last week we were on a road trip. She was navigating with Waze on my phone. At one point I looked over, and she was browsing my photos, and I realized that if she had opened a second photo app, it would have selfies of me dressed. On inspection, indeed she had, and didn't say anything until I brought it up. I apologized that she had probably seen some things that she couldn't unsee. Surprisingly, her only real comment was that she couldn't understand why I would want to take pictures of myself, but overall was not terribly negative about it.
I look upon this as progress. At each turn, I have always waited for her to bring it up, this was the one exception, but she seemed to handle it well.
Chelsea
