I know I don't need to but I'd really like to tell my sister, the problem is, How? She lives hundreds of miles away so a face to face conversation is unlikely, however we do converse on social media.
My biggest fear is if she asks when it started which I'm sure she most likely will, I'm sure some will relate to the fact that I wore my sisters clothes when she was out of the house, I was about 11 or 12 probably, I'd hate for her to feel violated in any way, I suppose I could bend the truth and say I stole some hose/tights etc. So she wouldn't think she'd been wearing clothes I had worn, maybe I'm making too big a deal of it.
Anyway, how to approach the subject? Are there any of you who have gone through this who can offer some advice, she's very open minded and I'm sure she won't have any issues with it, I'd just like to be able to share this with her, we are a close family and I'd like to be honest with her.
My wife and I visited her a few years ago and there was an obvious atmosphere between my wife and I, my sister noticed this but never interfered, this was at a time when my wife knew I was hiding something from her, (the dressing) I came out to my wife within a month or so of that visit, the reason was because she thought I was having an affair and I couldn't let her think I'd be disloyal to her.
So with this back ground story do you see this as an opening for a conversation with my sister?