Meghan,
You have to accept everyone as having a need to appear female or feminine in some way, some do it very well and some struggle to get it right, that comment could also apply to GGs, it comes more natural to some than others.
I personally can't get my head round members who love dressing and do want to pass but have a full beard . I don't claim to be an expert but sometime I do wish I could give some basic advice to members who wish to pass but have a long way to go.
I do remember when I first joined and was greeted by some people who I thought were GGs, talking to them and referring to them with female names was a little weird for a few weeks.
The problem I have is I can relate to a member more if they use a femme name that makes sense and better still a real avatar .