Ok, so this is a tough question. And I don't expect everyone to have the same answer.
Do you WANT to be known as the crossdresser?
Before you answer, consider the difference in one or two people knowing that you crossdress, certain populations (i.e. support groups, that one really cool bar, etc.), a larger group, maybe family, work, or pretty much everyone knowing. And consider the difference between wanting it, versus just being ok with it.
Keep in mind, some people may, sorry WILL think of you as gay or a perv. But it might not matter to you. Also are there definetly some you don't ever want to know?
I can not even honestly answer my own question. I vasilate on my own response. Some days I might think YES, some meh OK, and others Heck no, and even occasionally, I don't even want to know me as a crossdresser! So very weird.
