You are so right Jennifer!
I have been slowly coming out of the house. It was a terrifying experience at first. Now it's not so bad. I don't pass 100% but it's rare that anyone actually looks at me in public. They pass by, that's all.
I went to a city three hours away bc my GF had a conference there. I went out dressed, shopped, ate, wandered the city. No one gave me a glance except for a 5 yr old boy. It was great. But in the evening when I went out to dinner with my GF, and we passed groups of people on the street, I lowered my head to hide my Adams Apple. My GF said, don't hang your head - be proud of who you are. So I agree with Jennifer, head up, eyes up, shoulders back.