I hear the word sissy used somewhat regularly here and I have to admit that when I look in the mirror fully dressed like today,I'm a total a sissy. Does anyone else feel that way or is it just me?
I hear the word sissy used somewhat regularly here and I have to admit that when I look in the mirror fully dressed like today,I'm a total a sissy. Does anyone else feel that way or is it just me?
Last edited by Josie; 08-25-2016 at 11:20 AM.
I feel that way. It seems that the term "sissy" itself is very hot-button for some. I think it describes the way I feel when dressed.
I've been to some sissy websites and I just don't fit in with those groups. Don't classify yourself as a sissy until you know what it's all about now days.
"You're the only one to see the changes you take yourself through", Stevie Wonder
You are correct about this. Being a "sissy" 40 years ago meant you were a boy or young man but was not brave or perhaps not possessing strength or other masculine characteristics or abilities. "sissy" nowadays actually can very well mean a man who is into being seriously berated, usually by a dominatrix and be forced into very humiliating behaviors. Although they do in fact like it. It is a means of being dominated while being dressed.Originally Posted by Ressie
Sissy as in just a weak person and feminine I believe are not one in the same. I think a woman can be a strong person of character, a leader and yet still possess femininity. I personally cannot say I have ever felt like a "sissy" in the old term, and have no interest in the new alternative lifestyle either. Not really sure how new it is though.... I think it might be getting a bit more popular now.
Chickens should be allowed to cross the road without having their motives questioned
Hey T-girls, It's 2016. If any one of you have been called a Sissy by some idiot. at a bar. restaurant, club or just walking down the streets.
Just ignore it. They are living in the 1960's. We are very proud to have all experienced our journey. and the times are changing.
Were your heels and and walk down the streets, And enjoy the sound of your heels hitting the ground. WE ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!
XOXO Tiffany Amber Rhoads.
I've never felt like a sissy in my life, regardless of how I'm dressed.
jodi
I never feel that way. For me, "sissy" is a derogatory term.
There are a multitude of words, phrases and objects (e.g. Confederate Battle Flag...symbol of Southern Heritage and State's rights to some and a symbol of slavery to oh so many others!) that conjure up both positive and negative feelings for different populations. Since "sissy" is found offensive by so many in the trans-community, why would anyone want to use it despite however they personally feel about the term. Just simply know that the term is profoundly derogatory/abusive/insulting to many of us where this word was an offensive weapon (yes, words hurt...the pen is truly mightier than the sword) used against us while growing up (our impressionable and formative years). Again, really, why would you want to use a word once you realize it hurts others??
Wearing my fuschia bodycon dress:
http://imgur.com/6WkdAts
For the first time, outdoors during the day:
http://i.imgur.com/RmjIxbY.jpg
ReineD
I'll adhere to the second definition of you don't mind.
Last edited by Josie; 08-25-2016 at 02:38 PM.
Amen to that. Unless you're directing the word to a person who has a fetish for being a "sissy," keep it out of the conversation. I find it offensive. This issue has been on this forum before. I really detest the word appearing on eBay when advertising women's lingerie. Does a plus size woman who regularly buys clothes at Catherine's, Roaman's, et al like being lured in with "sissy?" I think not.
When I was growing up the term "sissy" was always directed toward other boys who were not athletic. "Sissy" is up there with "candy ass" and "pansy" and other derogatory terms to attack a boy's or man's lack of perceived "manliness."
I just pee'd and I sat down to do it! I always sit down to pee. I like it that way.
Sissy....Some like it, some do not. Just ask who ever you talk to. I dress in "sissy maid" dresses from time to time and I still kind of cringe when I hear the word sissy. I am pretty masculine and in control in day to day life. I simply adore the look....I mean, look at my screenname! I am pretty confident in general though, so if someone calls me that, I simply tell them I am not a fan of the word and they move on.
No big deal to me either way though. I work out to stay in shape so I can fit in dresses, it keeps me secure as a side effect. A word coming from someone I do not care about does not offend me.
I don't really see a big deal personally, it's obviously going to vary from person to person but I'd try not to see it as derogatory unless it's purposefully used as an insult. Maybe someone doesn't like the word, that doesn't mean they should think less of someone who does. There are many different types of crossdressers, some will highly dislike the word, others will like it, whatever.
I surely feel 'girly', or 'feminine', but as said above, 'sissy' is a term for being submissive and not really the same thing. You might feel submissive as a 'female' as part of how dressing makes you feel, but it is not the general feeling I get from dressing up.
I agree. I seldom see it written here to describe crossdressers. I'm far too old to be a "sissy".
Because women are not "sissies". Women just are people who have different DNA and genitals than men.
You are a MtF crossdresser.
Last edited by Krisi; 08-26-2016 at 08:29 AM.
Even though I like a woman taking control and dominating me I can't say I feel like a sissy, especially when I'm dressed up. I just feel pretty and like i know what i want.
I really really hate the word "sissy"...it conjures up a lot of bad memories while growing up and being picked on for my feminine spirit
Wearing my fuschia bodycon dress:
http://imgur.com/6WkdAts
For the first time, outdoors during the day:
http://i.imgur.com/RmjIxbY.jpg
I was only ever once referred to as feminine and I actually relish that statement, I feel more sissy than masculine. I really like feeling like a sissy! I'm dressed totally like a women and it feels good so why am I not totally sissy?
Maybe I'm confusing sissy with feminine, but I like thinking of myself as a sissy, maybe it's another way of saying feminine.
I think that the word "sissy" is derogatory. I cannot think of any situation where it would be a good word to use.
Hugs, Carole
Today I'm totally dressed as a women, I feel great and anything better masculine. So what am I today?
Dear Josie,
There are many heart felt points already here with which I too agree.
Your last post seems to sum up what often happens to me, I have so many different moods on different days it is not sensible to use labels as tomorrow I feel quite differently a different label would be better...so let's go without the labels please.
Tania
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Yes, you are confusing the definition, and no, "sissy" does not mean "feminine".
Sis·sy
Noun (informal):
1. a person regarded as effeminate or cowardly. Synonyms: coward, weakling, milksop, namby-pamby, baby, wimp. Informal: softie, chicken, milquetoast; mama's boy, pantywaist, twinkie, crybaby, powder puff.
Adjective:
1. feeble and cowardlyynonyms: effeminate, effete, unmanly.
Note, I've also seen the word "sissy" used a lot in fetish feminization websites. To some men, it is kinky to be demeaned.
Feminine
Noun:
1. the female sex or gender.
Adjective:
1. having qualities or appearance traditionally associated with women, especially delicacy and prettiness. Synonyms: womanly, ladylike.
2. Grammar: of or denoting a gender of nouns and adjectives, conventionally regarded as female.
Reine
I absolutely abhor the term. As previously mentioned, it is a derogatory term meaning weak and ineffectual, weak willed, unwilling to defend ones self, unwilling to get dirty or make a physical effort. Not only is it offensive to males, it is also offensive to females as it epitomizes the absolute worst stereotypes assigned to the female gender.
I would never aspire to be a sissy as a man, or as a woman. For me, part of my dressing is an expression of what I see as ideal in women. Those ideals do not jive with being a sissy.
The term sissy is loaded with so many negative connotations and for many brings up and bad and painful memories and emotions. Imho and no offence intended to anyone who identifies with the modern interpretation of the term as used in the porn industry, I don't think it helps with the general populations perception of mtf crossdressers.
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