So. I have been seeing a substance abuse counselor for about a year. It's for alcohol abuse just so you know. Anyway, I have grown to trust him with many topics, and today I told him about my cross dressing. The first thing he asked is about my sexuality and I asked why do you mean? He asked if I was gay. I strongly told him no. He went on about how I am growing and bettering myself since I stopped drinking. He then went on to say that he doesn't have concerns about my dressing, but that it is now a barrier to me achieving a better life. He said that we need to explore this more and find a way to "dress normal" fir a man.
At first I felt okay that he at least said he wasn't worried about my dressing.
But as I thought about it though the day, I can't help but feel that he thinks differently just by some of his comments. Specifically he said we might work on finding a way for me to get rid of the clothes and "dress in normal guy clothes."
Dressing isn't hindering me. If it dies anything it helps me.
I kind of have concerns that he could tell me to stop.