I had what I would consider my first "real" outing with my wife yesterday. We went and saw a movie together and it was a great experience but that's not what this thread is about. One of the reasons I was so confident and able to go out was that I had her to lean on. She purchased the tickets and refreshments so my voice wouldn't give me away. It was nice to have her around and I don't know that I would have had the confidence to go out without her.
However today it occurred to me that had we run into anyone we know, she would have been more of a liability if I was trying to be stealth. We're together a lot and everyone who knows one of us knows us both. If I were to be out on my own, I think I look different enough en femme that I don't think I'd be immediately associated with my male self. With her along, whoever I feel like people would be looking for "male me" and so would more easily see through "female me". Not that I really care. If someone I know finds out they find out. I just don't feel the need to share with EVERYone.
So all you girls who go out with your SO, what are your thoughts on this?