Sex whilst dressed

[GaleWarning]

My 2,00th post ... and to celebrate I thought I would talk about an age-old problem, how to enjoy sex whilst dressed. So many threads and posts speak of the difficulty SOs in particular have with the notion.

My SO has been rather ill lately and recently underwent a successful operation. A couple of nights ago she told me that she craved my bod (or words to that effect) and I told her how much I had missed hers too (a bit more graphically, as you can imagine). We decided what we would do about it and went to sleep (at our age, anticipation is an important part of the foreplay).

The next morning I got dressed up and we did all the things we wanted to, in order to satisfy one another. After 45 minutes, there were two very happy bunnies in our house!

My point is this: in a loving relationship, each partner ought to be prepared to do those things which will heighten each other's sexual desire. It does not matter how each person is dressed or undressed. What does matter, is that at the end of the day (or night) the couple feels fulfilled and deeply in love with one another.

[franlee]

Gale congratulations on 2k post and your great success in marital bliss. Your post is one of the most positive and easily understood in a long time when dealing with intimacy. I sure hope the two of you continue to enjoy good health and gratification as well.

[Alice Torn]

Gale, At 62, still single and a virgin, at least physically, i am envious! Congrats to you on the success in this with your wife! I would guess it is not too common with most, as no woman i met would consider me, partly because i am poor, and partly because I CD. I wonder what being married would be like with a woman who accepts this, but i am learning to accept that i cannot be married in this life. We live in different worlds. Singles and marrieds. You have a rare, wonderful mate!

[Krisi]

Sex (with your wife) while dressed can be fun but at some point the clothes have to come off and then it's "normal" sex. My wife is rarely into it. Usually it's "Take off your boobs!"

[Robin777]

I used to have sex while dressed,but that was a long time ago when we were both a lot younger and into more kinky things, Now it's just foreplay while dressed and most everything has to come off. Like Krisi said "Take off your boobs!"

[Scarlett398]

I would love to be able to make love to my wife while dressed as a girl. That would be my ultimate fantasy but she is very conservative and would freak out if she knew I crossed dressed on a very regular basis.

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Wow, Gale, you are so lucky to be able to make love to your wife while dressed up. One of my ultimate fantasies that won't ever happen because of how conservative my wife is.
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Gale, congrats on your 2,000th post. I just had my third. I've never let anyone know about my cross dressing and I'm so glad we have a forum like this to discuss these matters with other cross dressers who understand why we have a need to do this. I bet there are a lot more of us out there like me who will never be able to come out of the closet with their cross dressing.

[Lilly 40C]

For me, foreplay while dressed is exciting but when the sex starts I want both me and my partner to be naked.

[wendy]

congrats on your 2000th post, and a very good and positive post.

[Jenniferathome]

...My point is this: in a loving relationship, each partner ought to be prepared to do those things which will heighten each other's sexual desire....

This smacks of an "obligation" and not a choice. Some women WILL engage in some activity that they do not actually enjoy but do it because their husband or BF enjoys it. The key here is that "doing it" whatever that is, is not the same as "enjoying it." No partner should feel obligated to entertain any and all fantasies. A wife is not less than for refusing such a request.

[docrobbysherry]

Unfortunately, after awhile with many marrieds the thot of all the work involved in satisfying the other person is more of a turn off than a turn on.

U r very lucky that u both still care enuff about each other that u can still enjoy sex, Gale.

[TrishaTX]

I love being dressed during sex and I get it often enough to be happy about that situation.I do not have to be naked lol!

[MissVirginia-Mae]

My Ex used to enjoy having me dressed while we did the deed.....
I think she enjoyed seeing me in my nightgowns and lingerie
Sounds like you both have a healthly happy, relationship!

[Leslie Langford]

Maybe not as much as your thought at the time, Miss V-M. You did say she was your Ex...

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Lesie, I picked up on the EX thing too......

[GaleWarning]

This smacks of an "obligation" and not a choice. Some women WILL engage in some activity that they do not actually enjoy but do it because their husband or BF enjoys it. The key here is that "doing it" whatever that is, is not the same as "enjoying it." No partner should feel obligated to entertain any and all fantasies. A wife is not less than for refusing such a request.

Jennifer, did you notice that we both ended up happy? The things we did were negotiated beforehand. No obligations were demanded, no-one was harmed during the session. The key, as mentioned time and again on this forum, is communication.

[Alice_2014_B]

I've had sex just wearing high heels a number of times; and that's as far as I personally care to go.

[kimberly c]

Sex while dressed in lingerie, yes, yes, yes. the boobs also stay on!!!

[VioletDoll]

I have sex dressed as well.. maybe fully dressed, maybe just stockings or panties.. maybe violet toenails.. (ok, always those)

[valerie anne]

Smudged makeup and laddered hose, no thanks!

[Tracii G]

I thought you had to be naked to have sex.

[Kendra Sue]

LOL. That is true

[VioletDoll]

I thought you had to be naked to have sex.

Wha? I never saw that memo.. I just find it hard when you're wearing pants

[Army Aimee]

While my SO has no idea about Aimee, I have had sex a couple times while dressed. I find it to be incredibly empowering to see the effect I can have on a partner while I'm dressed.

[Krisi]

This smacks of an "obligation" and not a choice. Some women WILL engage in some activity that they do not actually enjoy but do it because their husband or BF enjoys it. The key here is that "doing it" whatever that is, is not the same as "enjoying it." No partner should feel obligated to entertain any and all fantasies. A wife is not less than for refusing such a request.

Sometimes the enjoyment comes not from the act itself but from pleasing the partner (it goes both ways, BTW).

[Angie G]

Awesome Gale you go girl.
Angie