I used to idolize beautiful female performers many years ago; but as we learn more about them, it turns out that a lot of them are not very nice people. I understand that the constant scrutiny on their lives, and having men around them constantly hitting on them 24/7 is a hug annoyance. But there are very few that I idolize anymore, I don't fall for the common assumption that they are anything like the character they portray during their performances, and I certainly know that when they sing those love songs, they aren't singing about me.