I find that when im dressed I love to watch either trans porn or bi-sexual porn and I dont know why I find this such a turn on, Are any of you girls the same way,
I find that when im dressed I love to watch either trans porn or bi-sexual porn and I dont know why I find this such a turn on, Are any of you girls the same way,
Funnily enough it has the opposite effect on me. In guy mode I can take or leave 'normal' porn but when dressed porn of any kind does nothing for me at all, in fact I find some of it rather distasteful. Maybe I'm just getting old!
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Porn is disgusting IMO.
It reduces sex to just an act with no feeling.
Why would you want to watch it is my question.
If you get off on watching two people do it then you need to check yourself.
If I had a BF and he watched porn I would be furious.
Last edited by Tracii G; 10-08-2016 at 05:48 PM.
Nope. Never watched porn, never will.
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I'm just like you unlike 99% of the CD forums
"I don't know why i find this such a turn on"
Oh that's easy, It's because it feels erotic to project yourself as the girl. It has to do with submission, submission is hot because our minds are wired to like being acted upon rather than acting upon others.
Submission is also very little work and lots of reward. Also being a man who likes the idea of being a dirty girl on her knees is very taboo, More so than just "being gay". This is because the CD community is vigilant about proving their straightness so the idea of straying from the norm on two levels creates next level excitement.
Id say more on this topic but the admins tend to not like people bringing up sexuality. We could be friends on here if you would like, I didn't think fellow perverts existed on this website.
I've seen articles both ways. This one suggests it's common and not necessarily a hindrance in a relationship.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/dailydo...ed-watch-porn/
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I used to, but not anymore. Just reminds me of how far I am from where I want to be.
I think redtea's analysis is spot on.🌺
First, whatever turns you on, it's OK with me. There is nothing "sexy" about porn. Worse there is nothing "sensual" about porn. This morning my wife and I had a brief discussion about something we saw on television. I told her the Sunday newspaper color advertisements from Fred Meyer for bras and panties was way in excess of anything I ever saw in the early editions of Playboy magazine. I will confess I have bookmarked some eBay sellers of intimate apparel who are beautifully adorned in lingerie. To me that is a lot more stimulating to me than in your face private parts. One of the last issues of Newsweek magazine before it went to electronic only had an article on porn. It indicated, whether the sources were right or wrong, porn contributed to an uptick in anal sex. Duh!
I am with redtea...I love porn especially dressed. Dressing for me is sexual and yes I project into those roles. I also find trans very sexy so seeing that in porn turns me on. Different strokes for different folks...
No regrets except I should have got dressed & stepped out sooner.
What a turn off, I thought that this was a nice forum until now I am out of maybe for good.
Porn seems to attract 20 something males because maybe they aren't all that experienced in dealing with women in real life as far as being in a relationship.
They view a woman as nothing more that a sexual object perhaps I just don't know.
Last edited by Tracii G; 10-08-2016 at 08:17 PM.
Because of one thread that talks about porn generically?Originally Posted by Pattie
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No reason to leave Pattie its an adult discussion.
If I don't like a discussion I just don't read it.
the couple times that i have seen it i dream of being the woman
I lose interest in porn when in girl-mode, or just thinking about dressing up.
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Being a Christian, and through two marriages for a total of 32 years, I never had any use for porn since what little I was exposed to once in a while in college. But in the last year and a half or so, I have been going to these other sights under "crossdressers" and "crossdressing" and "Flickr" to get some prints just -for-me on my b x w printer - of tastefully dressed crossdressers for a small collection just for myself. It is sometimes so amazing that some of them are men, they look so feminine and so beautiful--on some other sites, yo0u can tell that many of them are men. I have one very favorite on Flickr that has a photostream of at least 30 poses that I really like. But there are some sites that have true porn poses you have to wade thru and those I don't like. I don't like the male genitalia showing blatantly naked and especially ones with oral sex going on. In the same vein, I am not overly fond of the naked female breast but love to see cleavage where the lower part of the breast is tastefully covered like any woman would be when out in public. To me the female body ins the skimpiest of bikini underwear is more attractive than the same body totally naked---that's just the way I am and probably that is different than how a lot of other guys are Of course I always loved seducing a female into making love and enticing her to the bed, scantily clad and slowly slipping off what she has on and then we are both ----well, you kno.........
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but seeing these pictures of crossdressers, some of them very smartly dolled up in some great looking poses and great clothes is a bit of a turn-on. Invariably after looking a while I get the urge to go dressing up myself when otherwise I might not feel much like doing that at the time, suddenly wanting to after all. I haven't dressed up yet before looking at these sites but there is an idea. Also I,ve only recently seen THE ROCKY HORROR SHOW on tv for the first time and the 2nd time it showed I got it on the DVR----then I downloaded some of the lyrics also---there is a theater here that has a midnight showing of it every 3 0r 4 months and I got photos of that off a website also . first I want to watch it in femme at home---sometime later I plan to attend a showing at the theater---dressed appropriately again also
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and I do agree with some other comments made earlier in this thread---I remember when some of the colleagues I had in my early 20s 9college days0 when some guys seemed to get a real big kick out of porn---I never did. I think it demeans women and women who do porn or at least act ****ty are lowering themselves to a very degrading and demeaning place in society that will look down in sympathetically toward them. I respect the opinion of one that pointed out guys in respectable relationships with young girls and women will not have any use for porn, as I never did. I always just had the desire to have one girlfriend and be in a sincere and respectable relationship[ with her---and that's what I did. I never did have just one date-except once when it didn't go well and it wasn't the fault of either of us. Usually I ended up going fairly steadily with one girl at a time. And when I was married I was totally devoted to my wife at the time, never cheating, never even thinking about or flirting with anyone else. Indeed, it was my first wife who eventually decided she was bored with me and moved from our motel room {they were all gratus because we were playing at the club th3ere) to one of her own and then started dating the security guard of that club without me knowing about it. But when I was then a bachelor again for 2 years between marriages, I still had no thought or no use for porn, although at that time I also was not crossdressing. More on that another time wen I post some of my history.
I am far more turned on by a lady in a knee length dress, than a naked lady, and porn usually turns me off. i almost never look at it now, and seldom did much. When i was a litter picker for a highway or city, sometimes i would find a lot of porn magazines, and admit i did look through them, usually quickly. Store catalogs with womens sections were more interesting to me. I remember the late Lucille Ball saying something to the effect, that women should be more modest, and leave a little to the imagination, rather than showing almost or everything. I do not even like THONGS or skimpy bikinis!! Full cut panties and swim suits are more modest and sexy to me. Naked breasts do little for me usually , either. I like some of the breasts covered. Just me, Not quite an Amish, but like a little modesty. Porn is mostly very harmful in my opinion, cheapens women and men, and all humans. I admit, though, that some of the porno mag letter stories were more a problem for me decades ago. But, what does this 62 yr old virgin know?
Last edited by Alice Torn; 10-09-2016 at 08:53 AM.
Kimberly,
That comes and goes, I went through a period of watching most of the categories, the need passed on, it just helped to get me needs in balance . I personally didn't want to do that stuff so now I don't need or want to watch it.
You may end up feeling the same way , if you don't it's not a problem as long as you're not harming anyone else .
I also found a documentary made about the people associated with the porn industry was a good cure, some of those people aren't in the real World , they'll do anything for money , most of it is so fake.
Last edited by Teresa; 10-09-2016 at 06:18 AM.
I used to work for a company that made pornographic films (mostly behind the camera, I hasten to add)
Bored me senseless, but I needed the money
People try to put us down
Just because we get around
I can't do anything sexual while I'm dressed. Something about it feels weird. Even just looking at porn doesn't feel right. Especially when it's straight porn. I can't even watch that when I'm not dressed. Thinking about having sex with a woman or being a woman during sex makes me really uncomfortable.
Ive watched porn but not as much lately as I used too, (getting old I guess lol) anyhoo, I still find my self watching occasionally gravitate to the trans, and lesbian stuff when I do,
Some people would say the same thing about us men who like to dress up and pretend we are women.
Who are we to judge what someone else likes. There is nothing wrong with watching a little porn, some of it is actually funny and some of it can actually be educational, when I was younger I used to watch porn to learn new techniques to better satisfy my wife. Sex if we really want to be honest, is just an act unless you are trying to reproduce but that's just MHO
And what is wrong with you sex becoming an act with no feeling? Just because you think sex should be a special experience doesn't mean other share that view. I also don't think watching porn impacts how people view sex, it is simply a tool to make masturbation easier.
I used to watch a bit of porn. The most I would do is look at trans stuff. It was pretty sexual for me. I must be older now as I don't do that anymore.
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