I told her only friends. She wants me to come visit her. I goofed and said i might, also to check out the area, for wor, and apartments. Now, i am lloking to move near where i am. She is good artist, and has good qualities, but, i am afraid At my age, I am too set in my ways. i could go out with her as a friend. She was not harsh about my dressing, but fairly patient, but there is no doubt it would be difficult. But, i am still a virgin, and she is fairly hot! I have had to make tough sacrifices many times, partly why i am still an old bachelor. What ever the heck i decide, it will be my decision. i am willing to compromise some, as every human relationship demands it. But, not getting as of now, no way. Telling her friends only. I may not be good in marriage, too. Just long distance frienship. She is too needy, and desperate, too. She is not a bad person, though.