It's probably a minority, but I am curious about "submissive" crossdressers. I see this theme in crossdressing literature all the time. Understanding why we crossdress is difficult enough, but to understand this "subset" of men who enjoy various levels of submission is even more elusive.

And I am not trying to be judgmental or critical at all. I am simply trying to understand it. And yes, when dressed I do have a lot of submissive fantasies myself.

So my questions are: If you are a submissive, what do you feel you get out of it? Why do you feel you are wired that way? And how is it connected to crossdressing?

Perhaps also...would you call yourself submissive when in male mode? Or are you agressive, confrontational?