My wife came at me with an article "Top 10 Reasons Wives Divorce Their CD Husbands". Yikes. She said she didn't want divorce but related to some of those reasons. One stood out: SOs/wives can see competition from the other woman (our CD selves) we spend time creating, improving, buying clothes for, and spending time as. Hmmm. I get it
Good discussions ensued. In the end she said, as we did when we first dated, that she wants to grow old together. I agreed, and said we could go have our nails done together. She laughed. Keeping it light as she adjusts to the other woman in her life.