My HR manager knows about me now. I say now, but she's known for a while. My Stefani Facebook profile keeps showing up on everyone's list of suggested friends, so I'm sure more people know about me. My HR manager accepted it without any trouble, and she peppered me with questions, respectfully. So far, everyone who knows about me has been accepting. My fears that the world will come to an end if my secret were to come out has been unfounded. What's harder to deal with is that I'm really not the center of the universe. Go figure. Those who do know, I'm sure, will defend me should someone decide to start trouble because of it. It's actually quite moving.