Several times, I have seen posts here where people ask, "If you saw a crossdresser in public, would you approach? Would you say you were a crossdresser? What would you say?" I had an opportunity this week to find out what I would do. There is an employee who appears to be transgender at a business I occasionally visit. This person appears to be a genetic girl who is living as a boy. The hair is short, the voice is not modified, the nametag is masculine, the blue jeans are feminine. I thought the jeans might be a need because the person has feminine curves. I confirmed that the name was his/her name by asking, "Your name is __? Hi, my name is __" I asked another employee if that person was transgender or androgynous so that I would know what pronouns to use. I was informed he was transgender. The next time I was helped at the cash register by this employee, I was going to try to slip in a "Sir" in my conversation. That's hard to remember to do. So, I went to the business one day dressed as a man in a skirt. He took my money at the cash register and we had a short, unrelated conversation. So, that's what I would do, I guess.
