Ok I am not sure if I will get in trouble for this post or not but here goes. I have a wonderful wife who is incredibly supportive about dressing and my going out.
But intimacy has really gone away and it really bothers me. She keeps telling me that it has nothing to do with the dressing, that she is just tired all the time from her new job or just not in the mood.
I really need the connection that comes from being intimate but it is just not happening. Yesterday we got into another fight about it and she said sure we are not as active as we use to be (I can count one hand for this year and have fingers left) but I am fulfilling you by being supportive of dressing.
Just don't know what to do. Really at the point where I feel like maybe I should box everything up and stop.