This is me!

[Kara in CT]

I was reading a post the other day and it really opened my eyes. She was saying "This is who I am. This is me!". I don't know why but it changed my attitude completely. The next day I said to the world "This is me!"

I dressed and spent the next 2 days out and about and didn't worry about it. I traveled and checked into my hotel. I went to breakfast, lunch and dinner. Did some shoe shopping where I had to ask the SA for sizing. Went to a few makeup counters for help and topped it off with a movie and the casino (OK I'm an old hat there).

Now I do not pass, but for the very first time I can honestly say I didn't care. I don't recall who wrote that post but I want to say thanks.

P.S. I'm writing this having just returned from dinner dressed again! For reference, photo is filtered on Iphone but not shopped.

[IleneD]

Being You is such a cool experience.
You are adorable, BTW. We all should want to be you.

[jennifer0918]

Are you crazy??? You totally pass wow you look beautiful I would have tought you as a gg.Keep up the good work

[Kandi Robbins]

Well done! We are who we are and the more we accept that, the better our lives will be. Now if I had your makeup skills, I could be a better version of me! You are a beautiful woman and should be proud of yourself.

[Jill_cd]

Good for you! There'll be no stopping you now.

[Lana Mae]

Onward and upward. You go ,girl! A very pretty lady!! Hugs Lana Mae

[stacycoral]

Miss Kara, you look great, why would you not pass, thanks for giving all us girl a boost. take care, hugs.

[RADER]

Yes; You would pass with ease. You look great.
Rader

[Exris]

Kara.

Well HELLO to YOU!

And you do pass... at least well enough. Better than most of here dream of. More then I do anyway thats for certain. Much more

And talking of you... dont keep that lovely woman locked away so much! It's great you take her out now!!!

[Emily Ann Brown]

You are jerking us...you are a CD? NO!! Em

[Exris]

You are jerking us...you are a CD? NO!! Em

Em. I have a high level of unhappiness with that comment. She is a CD. I do not wish to start a flame war. But if you could please be a little more supportive I would like that very much.

"That gurl" is an A+. And I see no deception other than what is portrayed by being on this website at all.


Thankyou.

[Traci H]

I think Em was a little "tongue in cheek there" Exris. At least that is the way I saw her comment. After looking at Kara's photo, I'm sure it was all in good fun.

[Exris]

Hi Traci,

I hope thats true. And if it is then I withdraw my remark.

[Rachael Leigh]

Kara you look great and yes it is you and I'm much the same, I'm not 24/7 nor plan to be but when I have my chances I go
out and just as you say enjoy being me, at least the fem me

[Becky Blue]

You go girl! You look great, passing is irrelevant.

[Allison Chaynes]

Wonderful pic, and your story is inspirational. I am visiting my therapist tomorrow and trying to decide what to wear.

[Julie Denier]

Very cool, and you look fantastic

[Jenniferathome]

... but for the very first time I can honestly say I didn't care....

BOOM! That's the attitude

[Dana44]

Kara, you look fine. I think you would pass out in public.

[Tracy Irving]

Good look. Very natural. Well done!

[Diane Smith]

Sometimes, the less you care, the better you look. I think it's just about impossible to judge "passability" from a still photograph, if it even matters at all. But your look is lovely, appropriate and feminine. It's all you need. I hope you can recreate the attitude on your future excursions.

- Diane

[natalie_cheryl]

I think I could take a page out of your book, I need to remind myself of this when I go out

[Robbin_Sinclair]

"This is me" hit the whole me a while ago. Not a preference...not a life choice...just me.

If I was a quarter century younger, I'd would have made the change (without surgery) when the world first started to recognize LBGT rights. Now, it makes no sense. Still! I love femdom and who I am.

The world is good for all of us. I just have to keep feeling this all the time.
💄⛩

[alwayshave]

Kara, what a beautiful picture. Perfect.

[Elizabeth G]

Hi Kara,

Confidence is a wonderful thing and I'm sure your presentation showed it. You look fabulous. Good for you!