Sitting around one day discussing some of the finer points of makeup and other issues of winter fashion, the wife looks over at me and says, in the most very matter-of-fact way.."Well, I have turned you into a woman." Realize this was meant in a most complimentary fashion and she seemed perhaps somewhat pleased about the whole thing. Of course maybe that's stretching it a bit but nevertheless...
Over the years she has been quite understanding and helpful. My alter identity is as open as one could imagine. Everything is for the most part what one might expect in an unconditionally accepting realtionship. Life can be good.