It does amaze me how many so far who have replied, prefer to stay in the closet when it comes to this.
Maybe I've just been "lucky" (doubtful), but I've come out to about a dozen or so GG-friends over my life. All, but one, were neutral to positive about it. And the one that wasn't simply didn't agree with it all, but we still remained friends for a good while afterwards, until we eventually just drifted apart like any other friendship does sometimes.
Did I choose the right friends to tell? Did I share in the right way? At the right time?
Why are my experiences so different?
And I gotta say, it's been pretty cool. And there are/have been some who hung out with me while I was en femme. Lots of fun experiences & great memories!
These are/were GG's anywhere aged from their 20's thru their 50's. Single, BF, married, whatever. Heck, one of them even opened up to me (and showed pics) of *her* CD'ing hubby! I was not expecting that, but it was pretty awesome, the same.
I dunno, here. Maybe because I've seen the other side, but by staying in the closet, you're potentially missing out on some fantastic things in life. Stop looking at what you might lose, and start to see what you might have to *gain*.
My 2 cents, anyway.