Hi everyone,
I'm a heterosexual female and my boyfriend of three years came out to me about crossdressing a while ago. I'm freaking out because I can't tell if he genuinely loves me, or if he is settling for the societal norms. I can accept the crossdressing, but he has told me that he watches CD porn with guys doing guys. He also talked about how he doesn't get turned on from being the person who has to penetrate, and was unsuccessful doing so with his ex. He lastly told me that it doesn't turn him on to watch two regular guys have sex. Only when the man and the male crossdresser does. I'm fine being able to satisfy his fetishes and desires, but I'm afraid he won't be able to satisfy my needs as a woman. He likes the idea of being penetrated and other stuff in his fantasies. I haven't seen too many CD porn from my search that involves a male CD with a woman. What kind of questions should I ask him to find out his sexual orientation? I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a partner who could have a partner that is better suited for him.