Each time I give constructive criticism, or make any comment that is not glowing praise, my inbox gets barraged with a flood of "how dare you" private messages scolding me for not being supportive and not lifting up the individual and being critical. So now I only give it when its asked for, which is rare.
The sad part is that, usually, the target of my constructive criticism thanks me for the advice, its the white knight users who I wasn't even directing my criticism toward who gets offended on their behalf. I think that's pretty sad, to be honest.
What if I told you, that being supportive and encouraging doesn't necessarily mean giving nothing but 100% glowing positive praise, and instead, giving constructive criticism where it is warranted? I actually think 100% hugboxxing positivity is NOT being supportive, and is deterimental and hurting the individual.
If it weren't for people giving me constructive criticism and harsh advice, I would never take any steps forward. I'd still be wearing crappy wigs, still be making goofy makeup mistakes, still be making fashion errors, and so on. I credit people having the courage to give me constructive criticism for the largest steps forward I have taken in my crossdressing journey and I couldn't be more grateful for it.