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    What's on your crossdressing bucket list?

    I was browsing Pinterest for tips on places to visit in other countries and came across several bucket lists. One thing lead to another and another, and then to a jump of thought process that lead to bucket lists of my own, including one related to dressing. And I'm wondering now what's on yours? A complete makeover? Wear a certain costume on Halloween? Wear any clothes in particular? Go clubbing in a black minidress and heels so high so that you bring flats in your purse?

    So here goes mine, in no particular order:
    • go shopping with a female friend (or girlfriend) and putting a fashion show
    • dress as a Snow White for Halloween
    • receive an article of women's clothing as a gift
    • wear knee high boots with over the knee socks and a flared miniskirt
    • wear a tulle skirt
    • wear a mermaid gown
    • my girlfriend and me wearing matching lingerie sets
    • walk in heels outside and enjoy the sound they make
    • and probably the least possible one of them all: a boudoir photoshoot

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    A few checks on your list for me 😊
    go shopping with a female friend (or girlfriend) and putting a fashion show. Not shopped with someone but had a fashion shoot with the SO.
    dress as a Snow White for Halloween
    receive an article of women's clothing as a gift, check.
    wear knee high boots with over the knee socks and a flared miniskirt, Check.
    wear a tulle skirt
    wear a mermaid gown
    my girlfriend and me wearing matching lingerie sets. Check.
    walk in heels outside and enjoy the sound they make. check.
    and probably the least possible one of them all: a boudoir photoshoot

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    You both have an exciting time ahead of you, go out and enjoy it.

    Me? Get my ears pierced eventually.
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    Hi Lucy, There were two things on my CD bucket list, Getting my ears pierced and getting a lovely Wedding Gown.

    One down and one to go ......>Orchid
    Having my ears triple pierced is AWESOME, ~~......

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    Bucket list or wish list.
    -Full makeover and sexy maid outfit for photoshoot at the Welcome to Las Vegas sign.
    -Breast implants and permanent makeup. (definitely wish list)
    -Mani/Pedi
    -Photoshoot in a major indoor shopping mall
    -Laser hair removal
    I've waited so long for this time. Makeup is so frustrating. Shaking hands and I look so old. This was a mistake.
    My new maid's outfit is cute. Sure fits tight.
    And then I step into the bedroom and in the mirror, I see a beautiful woman looking back at me.
    Smile, Honey! You look fabulous!

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    There are many things that would be on the list that I will eventually do. Like go to the grocery store dressed. The number one is have a transformation at Emerald Fantasies!!!! Dream on!! Hugs Lana Mae
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    My list is fairly short:
    - Buy another fancy dress.
    - Go to Japan and crossdress.
    - Crossdress in town without panicking.
    - Crossdress at the mall.

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    Hmmmm...Let me think....

    Shop for my first dress.
    Get ears pierced. (This week)
    Get a pair of heels
    Learn to walk in those heels.
    Learn to do my own makeup
    ......and the list goes on and on.......

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    Fly pretty. Ready to do it when the conditions line up.
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    Go out in public as Krisi with my wife. Two women shopping, dining, walking, etc.

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    - wear a gorgeous wedding dress (something like what kate middleton wore)
    - dress up as a beautiful business woman to work (pumps, blazer, snazzy dress shirt, the works).
    - wear a Realise swimsuit to the pool
    - able to do a full CD makeover (something like Wildside in Toronto).

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    Gosh. My bucket list is non-existent because I just kind of take things as they come when I dress and go out the couple of times a year I do it.
    I do want to get some forms (or at least replace the silicon enhancers I have) and I do want to try on a wedding gown (have tried bridesmaids, prom, mother-of-the, etc. gowns. I asked to try a wedding gown once, but was put off that I had to have an appointment.
    And I have had four make-overs at various stores (including one at a Macy's Prescriptives counter.
    This is not to say that something will spring to mind that I want to do dressed. Never know.
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    Happy to say I'm currently working my way through them

    > attend a formal ball in a floor length satin evening dress
    > go on a romantic dinner date to a nice restaurant
    > go to a BDSM/Fetish event
    > go out on an all day summer bar hop wearing a summer dress and shades
    > go lingerie shopping (which I have done)
    > go out clubbing with some female girly friends as one of the girls
    > book an appointment for trying on formal dresses in a large store

    that's it, looking forward to it all!

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    Why would I have such a thing? Not planning on dying any time soon. I just do things as they come up.
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    1. Spend a full day en femme
    2. Travel the world as Michelle
    3. Be intimate with a woman as Michelle
    4. Go shopping with a female friend and trying a montage of outfits!
    5. (Unlikely) go to the beach in a two piece.

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    Get dolled up in a pretty dress and boots, coat, scarf and hat and go for a walk in gently falling snow.

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    In no particular order:
    Get crossdressed in Japan
    Get this side of me settled before I begin dating
    Facial hair removal
    Get vocal training
    Acquire breast forms and hip pads (I recognise the inevitability of the latter now)
    Attend Pink Dot as Lily
    Get make-up advice

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    Only 2 left.....Vegas and Overseas....Id like to get to other countries Anthony Bourdain style

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    Lucy,
    I guess bucket lists only exist because we fear the response from our partners or what society might think, if we were free to do as we chose with our CDing we wouldn't need them, OK we might need extra funds to achieve the more exotic items.
    I might be in a DADT situation but in the last year of going out many items members list have been ticked off.

    Shopping with a fiend, maybe not.
    I didn't dress as Snow White for Halloween but did go out in a Spice Girl Union Jack dress , it coincided with Trafalgar Day.
    I have worn knee high boots with 4" heels to go out but with a LBD.
    Will be wearing a tulle dress for the Xmas party.
    Not sure about the mermaid gown but wore a full length satin ballgown for my first time out'
    matching lingerie sets, not in a DADT situation, nice thought though.
    Walked and driven in heels to every social meeting so far.
    Did my own photoshoot , in fact did several as I was a professional photographer with my own studio and darkroom.
    Pierced ears don't bother me, I'm happy with my selection of clippons,

    I guess my top of the bucket list would be openly accepted by my wife and say goodbye to DADT forever !
    Last edited by Teresa; 11-28-2016 at 02:08 PM.

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    What is it with Japan and crossdressing? I know that there's this cafe where crossdressing guys serve the patrons...

    Quote Originally Posted by Teresa View Post
    Lucy, I guess bucket lists only exist because we fear the response from our partners or what society might think, if we were free to do as we chose with our CDing we wouldn't need them, OK we might need extra funds to achieve the more exotic items.

    I guess my top of the bucket list would be openly accepted by my wife and say goodbye to DADT forever!
    Well, maybe you're right, an interesting idea, actually. But still, I think it's a funny to do. Here's hoping you'll get there one day
    Last edited by Lucy23; 11-28-2016 at 02:16 PM.

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    - fly pretty
    - travel overseas en femme
    - spend 30 straight days in another city as 24/7 Gretchen
    - attend a company Christmas party in a party dress with all of my friends with total acceptance
    - sit at a pool or beach wearing a swimsuit
    - a complete day at a spa

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    OK, here's my list...

    * Stroll through a crowded mall or down our busy street where all of the restaurants and bars are downtown.
    * Dress up and go to bed with my wife.
    * Have an unlimited amount of money and space to buy more sexy clothes to mix and match.
    * Go out dressed on a date with my wife.
    * Meet with a group of other CDs while dressed to discuss thoughts and experiences of the others in the room.
    * Be able to come out of the closet as far as my cross dressing is concerned with my wife.
    * Be able to admit my cross dressing to all of my relatives and friends.
    * Be able to be tech savvy enough to post photos of myself while dressed in various outfits on this site.

    That's it for know...Super idea for a thread by the way...Scarlett

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    Lucy,

    Everyone has given several examples of things that would be nice to add to my bucket list. One that I have been trying to complete for the last three years is going to a beach in my bikini. We tried to get it done last summer but when we went there were a lot of people there and my wife didn't want to go through with it. Said that we would try again either next year or a different beach. So no luck this year, but she did get me a new string bikini from Ocean Pacific . It's very pink...


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    Flying en femme,arriving at the airport walking in heels through concourse getting on my flight arriving at my destination then checking into my hotel.

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    I have done most of my bucket list but there is one. Scuba diving in a bikini. is one of mine.
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