I don't often go out dressed but when I do, I make a real effort. I dress in a very feminine way which emphasises the way I feel about myself, and always visit a make-up artist first so I look my best. Like most of us here, I am heterosexual but I think I am a very feminine guy in many ways.
When I am dressed, I am very happy in the company of other CDs or GGs but become very uncomfortable in the presence of men. I have considered this and think it is probably because real men make me feel very inadequate - I have never been a successful lover for several reasons, one of which being because I am very small in the relevant area. This has never bothered the women I have met, unless they are looking for a stallion. Somehow with men, our self confidence has a lot to do with our size - understandable I suppose.
Anyway, I attended a CD meeting where some members of the local police attended to give a talk on safety and legal issues for CDs - there were three of them, two women and a man.
The evening progressed well but at one point I saw the male police officer looking at me with great attention. I was wearing a tight skirt just above the knee but when I sat down it rose up a little but was still completely decent. I was wearing black hose and pumps so I suppose in the right light my panties might just have been visible when my legs were uncrossed. So of course I crossed them and nothing further happened.
However, I haven't been able to stop thinking about the effect I had on him and realise that it gave me a thrill - firstly to be able to attract him and secondly that I was happy being in a submissive role in both our minds.
Nothing more will come of this, but I wanted to share my thoughts.