Krisi
NO
That is not code, it is exactly what I said. If the person has not has not examined information about CDING, it's causes, it's various presentation, the facts around the demographic distribution including typical sexual orientation, THEN THEY ARE UNINFORMED.
Uninformed people are entitled to their opinion, but when they have a visceral response, which is a subconscious reaction, it would be awfully nice to know what the root of that is.
And BTW, I have seen people that I've know for 30 or more years make these type of comments, and it is still surprising.
Nobody is suggesting thought police here. I am suggesting that if you know the root cause to what forms an opinion, it might help direct ones own approach to a conversation. Nothing in this post was said about forcing ones opinion on another.