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    tiptoeing thru the tulips ellbee's Avatar
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    Anyone here ever wear matching fem outfits with their SO?

    If so, whose idea is it? And who selects the outfit?


    I suppose behind 4 walls is fine, if that happens.

    But how about also in public, if applicable? Where do you go / have you gone like that?


    Or how about out in public, but you in guy-mode? That's gotta mess with some people a little.

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    My wife and I went as 2 broke girls for Halloween does that count ? Actually we ordered 2 polka dot vintage dresses (still waiting for them to arrive) maybe we will wear them to the valentines dance next feb.
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    Nope. Couldn't do it. Way too cutesy.

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    One weekend wife and me went to another town, laguna beach, get into the hotel, I fully dress, make up, wig, etc, we have the same size so in those days I use her clothes, so went to dinner to a restaurant as two women, in a moment I kiss her what she refused because didn't want to pass as a lesbian.
    There was a couple of lesbian in a near table kissin a lot, in a moment I surprise my wife with a kiss and she disn't complain.
    After dinner, we left the restaurant grabing her hand as I usually do but outsidw she loos my hand.
    Then we went to different shops together as ywo women, in a very nice perfume boutique we bougth parfumes for each other.
    The owner noticed i'm a man so I ask for male parfume and women for my wife.
    A very nice, fun night sharing the same clothes...
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    Went to Key West florida for festable, we were German Bar maids, rodw a motor scooter to get around. Was in heels to.

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    Senior Member Karen RHT's Avatar
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    I haven't purposely worn something matching with my wife as yet. In fact, several times when we've shopped together, I've actually refrained from buying something that matches her selections even though she's encouraged me to do so. "If you like it that much, get one for yourself" is what she's said. Other times she's outright suggested "You should get one of these too."

    We do have a couple of bra and panty sets that match, except for size. They were ordered online at bargain prices I couldn't resist. Obviously they wouldn't be noticed by others should we have them on at the same time.


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    Senior Member Tracy Irving's Avatar
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    At one point we bought matching bras but she never wore hers. Currently, we have matching pink pajamas but have only worn them at the same time once.

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    My wife would consider that an "11" out of "10" on the "creepiness" scale.

    In fact, I am now no longer even permitted to buy her articles of clothing for Christmas, Birthdays, Valentine's Day or any other special occasion. This is based largely on her unfounded suspicions (paranoia?) that I would also have bought the identical thing for myself in my size, given that I liked the item enough to have chosen it for her in the first place.

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    My wife doesn't want to see me dressed, but I have borrowed her clothes very often as she said "Do whatever you want". I can fit into most of her clothes and when she likes things in the catalog, I may buy it for her so I can try it as well.
    I created this picture with both of us wearing the exact same dress, but in different years.
    http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...6&d=1459001208
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    We are DADT for everything but Heidi's closet. That means she doesn't want to see me dressed let alone matching outfits. She does have access to the closet in another bedroom that I use for my clothing because she uses part of it too. All this said, we do have matching tops. Here's the story: she had gone to visit a cousin for a few days and the weather turned extremely hot. She needed a couple of sleeveless tops to get by. She found a couple of cute Liz Claiborne tops at Penney's.
    When she returned home, I was looking at doing some of the laundry to help out. There on top of the luggage is a Liz Claiborne top I had bought four weeks earlier! Panic! Did I leave it out accidentally? I picked it up and looked at it. Oh my, she bought a copy that was a size smaller! Now what, say you have one too? She wants DADT, so I won't tell, just chuckle that I bought first.
    The outcome? Three days later, she goes to the other bedroom closet to get something out of her side and I hear a very loud OMG! She comes into the sun room and asks why I took her top. I smiled and said "look at the size". I then told her I bought mine weeks before her and started doing the twilight zone theme.
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    My wife and I dress alike all the time.... we're jeans and tee shirt kind of people... lol

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    Before she knew I was a crossdresser, I bought my wife a little black dress that was just a smaller size of one I had, but we never wore matching outfits together.

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    The ex and myself did matching outfits on New Years eve a few years back. I had lost of lot of weight and as a reward she bought me a wrap around black leather mini skirt that was identical to one she loved to wear. We had matching panties, stockings, garter belts, bras and blouses also!!! She unbuttoned a few more buttons on her blouse since she loved to show off her natural 38E's. We went to Ziegfelds in DC and had a great time.

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    My late wife and I wore matching nighties on our wedding night.

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    Aspiring Member Jackie7's Avatar
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    We often do. We have quite a few matching outfits.

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    There is a member here, Rita, who always shows up with her SO, who makes identical outfits/costumes for them both!

    What makes it even more remarkable is she is tiny and Rita is a big girl. Maybe she will read this and post a photo?
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    We have a coupe skirts that are the same, but she never wore it out with me wearing mine..
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    My wife and I have a couple of matching things (well pretty darn close, not perfectly exact).

    But they are only for fun days at home, not for wearing out.
    In between the bright lights and the far, unlit unknown...

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    Yes, often at home. We shop together and sometimes buy the same sweater or dress because we both like it so much. We do occasionally go out dressed together "out of town" (We live in a small village), but have yet to wear the same oufit. We are considering it though!

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    She likes pants...I like dresses...so the answer is nope!
    Wearing my fuschia bodycon dress:
    http://imgur.com/6WkdAts
    For the first time, outdoors during the day:
    http://i.imgur.com/RmjIxbY.jpg

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    Oh yes, we have many of the same outfits, dresses, shoes and suits. I have one wig that is styled and the color of her hair. I'm a lot bigger than she is so we have to duplicate the clothes but it is a big turn on for me and she seems to enjoy it also especially when I help or do her work for her. My late wife and I were close enough to the same size that we could wear the same clothes and even shoes but we had a few of the favorite outfits dubbed plus she wore a uniform 5 days a week so I had plenty of them to don during the day. Her hair was a different color but I still have the wig that matched hers and the makeup that suited that color.
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    Most women would be horrified to show up somewhere with another woman wearing the same outfit (unless it was a uniform) so no, my wife and I don't wear matching clothes.

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    My wife and I have several matching items from dresses to tops to shoes, but we would never wear them out in public together at the same time.

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